The thing that Av, dad and juv all have in common is a complete inability to ever accept that they are wrong about anything. In China they probably would be / have been hard core Maoists, because the little red book contains the unarguable answer to everything. As it is they are "christians" and use the bible for their personal little arsenal of ignorance.
What I find most amazing is that these folks are ostensibly
Christian. Now, since I left Christianity I don't really have a say in how it is conducted or what makes for a Christian, but the one thing I feel I was impacted by in my decades as a Christian was the importance of accepting responsibility for your own actions and potential errors. The path to salvation was the
acceptance of Grace, the first step was the acquiescence that salvation was
needed but not earned. In order to deserve mercy one must first agree that one is capable of error.
On numerous occasions I've agreed that Dad or Juvenissun or even AV have a valid point! I've done it repeatedly. But I don't see it reciprocated much at all.
It is a very lonely thing to "talk" to these people since they brook no error on their part and their
agressive attitude toward others really is off-putting.
If AV
really wants to know what gets my dander up and why I
continue to argue against these folks; he should know it has nothing to do with their religion
per se (unless that religion tries to trample on others or on science), but rather their pride-of-ignorance. For me it's like a big red flag for a bull.
I will confess to weakness here. I
despise their attitudes. Most of my friends are Christian and I have a great deal of respect for my friends. So it has nothing whatsoever to do with their "faith", but it does have to do with their
attitude toward other people.
I will also confess that I've said many intemperate things to all three of them. But I didn't start out that way. Like I said, it's the big red flag. Poke me enough and wave that red flag enough and I'll charge.
Interestingly enough I'm not like this in real life. I'm usually far more obsequious and self-effacing in conflict. But that is part of the "anonymity" of the Internet discussion forum I suppose.
But you'll also note that at the bottom of most of my posts is the "Editted by..." line usually because I obsess over what I've written in a gross attempt to make sure I've not made too many errors. And I'll even own up to my errors.
For me the height of honesty comes in the assessment that I don't think anyone
should believe a word I say without checking it out. That's why I always attempt to put in caveats and
references or citations for most of my claims. I could be in error. I could be grossly in error.
But by the same token, I despise the attitude of those who think they can never be in error. THOSE are the last people I will ever trust.