Don't hold your breath, we've been waiting for centuries....
I'd add, even giving the specific quote of ANYONE (even a single heretic) who clearly knew Mary and who wrote during her lifetime that she was a PERPETUAL Virgin. We have heretics (many, many of them) who knew Joseph Smith and who wrote during his lifetime that all the claims about him were true - and this our Catholic and Orthodox friends reject as inadequate substantiation, so let's have at least much LESS to substantiate this DOGMA of Mary as a Perpetual Virgin. If not from God in Scripture, then from someone - anyone - who clearly knew her and clearly states that she was a PERPETUAL VIRGIN.
Why does this matter?
1. Because she's our Mother and we love, adore, esteem and venerate her.
2. Because truth matters; to spread falsehood is NOT "loving" (the issue of this thread) NO MATTER HOW WELL INTENDED.
3. Because Catholics reject as inadequate far, far, far better substantiation than what has been offered here to support this DOGMA.
"Rumor." An unsubstantiated popularly held story or report. According to the Catholic Catechism, to spread a rumor is a sin and thus UNloving. Thus, the singular issue here is this: Is this report substantiated in a manner the RCC or EO itself accepts as valid and sufficient for a DOGMA?
Yes, we're waiting.
And waiting.
And waiting.
Because love and respect MATTER, especially when speaking of Our Mother, Our Blessed Lady.
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