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At Crossroads -- Cf's Vision Discussion Thread - Please Vote in Poll Thread

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heymikey80

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Funny; I'm a Christian and I agree completely with Beastt. You just seem to be deflecting debate with baseless "you can't understand" assertions.
Well, Beastt actually made statements showing that actually he doesn't understand Christian thinking on these points. Put in context and not reduced ("when a fact is reduced, it ceases to be a fact inasmuch as it is reduced") it's not baseless.
 
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I've only had one person approach me, actually; perhaps they're capable of noticing the atheist icon themselves and choosing someone else :)

The list of mods and members online don't have icons next to them. Unless they already know someone, they would randomly have to pick, and they wouldn't know, till you responded, who they chose.
 
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And I was showing you why it's disgusting. It can be bigotry in a different way, but people really need to quit comparing me to a lynch mob, know what I'm saying? And I mean a real, honest-to-God lynch mob. Disgusting.

Weeelllll, technically, my post was not aimed at any specific person. Your was. You could have simply disagreed with my post rather than railing at me personally.

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And I was showing you why it's disgusting. It can be bigotry in a different way, but people really need to quit comparing me to a lynch mob, know what I'm saying? And I mean a real, honest-to-God lynch mob. Disgusting.
I agree. That alone is enough to polarize people against option #1.
 
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actually, why couldn't there be a rule that if ANYONE got a pm from a seeker we would automatically refer them to the pastoral team?
simple and perfect solution. we did this on our team as a Mod. Herev and P_G were called many times to minister.
 
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I don't know if this has been asked already, but...

How are we going to determine a clear victory in the poll? I mean... right now we've got a 60-40 split here and that means that if either side won, there would be a substantial amount of people unhappy with this decision.

Should there be majority minimums applied to this poll? Or will this really come down to such divisions?
 
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Weeelllll, technically, my post was not aimed at any specific person. Your was. You could have simply disagreed with my post rather than railing at me personally.

Lisa

Actually between the posts that compare the old CF to Nazis/Hitler and the ones that compare it to slavery/the civil rights movement, it leaves a very bad taste in one's mouth. To think that anyone here is persecuted to that extent is absolutely ludicrous. If they were, I'm sure they'd walk away, or run, without hesitation. It sure would be nice if everyone came back down to earth and talked more realistic-like.
 
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Is everybody tired of yelling at each other yet?

'Cause there's work to do.

Yes, I know I'm tired of it. It doesn't help that this thread is almost impossible to keep up with.
 
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I voted option two. Meeting with other Christians online was the reason I joined this site. After nearly four years I've been to a variety of churches but this is the one church I haven't left. Being a site that was simply influenced by Christians would change everything.
 
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Actually between the posts that compare the old CF to Nazis/Hitler and the ones that compare it to slavery/the civil rights movement, it leaves a very bad taste in one's mouth. To think that anyone here is persecuted to that extent is absolutely ludicrous. If they were, I'm sure they'd walk away, or run, without hesitation. It sure would be nice if everyone came back down to earth and talked more realistic-like.
AMEN!
 
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Aaaah... that is what some would think, but... many people come to CF searching and sincerely seeking and the first people they will turn to is a moderator and thus... being a moderator is not only janitorial, but also ministerial... it's a combo platter. Also, there will be Christians who are struggling and they will seek out a moderator to ask questions and request prayers.

Saying that being a mod is both ministerial and janitorial is begging the question. Say someone comes to a non-Christian mod and asks for spiritual guidance. It's as simple as explaining that one isn't a Christian and that if they are looking for guidance they ought to consider speaking with the ministerial staff. If a member chooses to speak to the mod anyway, then that is their choice and the resulting conversation is between them, just as it is now.

And btw, it has long been my impression that the PMs going back and forth between mods and some members have long contained some of the most objectionable content on the site. Adding non-Christian mods to the mix, even with the possibility that one may actually give non-Christian advice, would hardly make things worse.

No, being a mod is not merely janitorial. The ability to facilitate discussion is not to be taken lightly; the sight has often suffered from debate mods who could not follow an argument. If non-Christians have that skill and place themselves at the disposal of the site, I think it would be a shame to turn it down. If that means someone gets referred to a book they wouldn't otherwise have heard about, then honestly, it's the least of horrors.

So, being a moderator is 2 things... that go hand n hand... janitorial and ministerial. That is why only Christians should be moderators. But at the same time, those who are not Christians should still be able to serve CF in some other capacity. Why? Because all of us who are apart of this community should serve in some capacity or another.

So, what capacity would that be? Should they just not be called moderators.

And BTW: The whole point of a ministerial team is that it gives you an asset, not that it gives you a pre-emptive strike against non-Christian views. It's someone who can help, and who would be qualified to do so, not necessarily someone you need to get in their first.

As it stands, the fear that a non-Christian could mislead is hardly more real than the fear that a gung-ho kid with half a Bible and a burr in a delicate place could mislead under the old CF. Misleading is a real possibility one way or another. If folks got serious about makiing sure ministers really were qualified, you'd have a real asset to help people in a variety of ways. It'd be a shame to see that turned down because pre-empting the prospect of non-Christian mods was a higher priority.
 
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CF IS NOT A CHURCH!
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actually, if you read God's definition, it is:

Baker's Evangelical Dictionary
of Biblical Theology

Church, the [T] [J]

Definition of the Church. The New Testament word for "church" is ekklesia [ejkklhsiva], which means "the called out ones."

The Nature of the Church. The nature of the church is too broad to be exhausted in the meaning of the one word, ekklesia [ejkklhsiva]. To capture its significance the New Testament authors utilize a rich array of metaphorical descriptions. Nevertheless, there are those metaphors that seem to dominate the biblical picture of the church, five of which call for comment: the people of God, the kingdom of God, the temple of God, the bride of Christ, and the body of Christ.


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Actually between the posts that compare the old CF to Nazis/Hitler and the ones that compare it to slavery/the civil rights movement, it leaves a very bad taste in one's mouth. To think that anyone here is persecuted to that extent is absolutely ludicrous. If they were, I'm sure they'd walk away, or run, without hesitation. It sure would be nice if everyone came back down to earth and talked more realistic-like.

err...yeah, thanks for the apology.

Anyway, like I was saying, it was an attempt to make one side understand where the other side was coming from when they used words like bigotry.

Lisa
 
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