I must disagree. Understanding others and effectively communicating with them requires that one know the intentions of others. To use a slightly silly example, if a person says, "I love you, man," you're going to treat it differently depending on whether or not he's trying to get your Bud Light. Or if someone asks me a general question about capacitance, I'll respond differently depending on if they intend to answer a particular Circuits II homework problem or if they want to improve their general knowledge of physics. Or if you're writing a document on high-pass filters, you're going to use different terminology and focus on different things depending on who your intended audience is and what you anticipate they want to do.Because this involves our fundamental view of what God is, what God does and what our purpose is, of course we're going to have conflicts. However: it is not our purpose to judge each other's intentions.
To use a more relevant example, if someone asks, "if humans evolved from monkeys, why are there still monkeys?" you're going to respond differently depending on what you know of the questioner and her intentions. A student who honestly asks will get a different response from a drive-by creationist who has no intention of even considering the answer. Judging another's intentions and taking them into account isn't just useful, it's absolutely necessary for any effective communication.
Honesty sometimes forces uncomfortable conclusions upon us. Unflattering conclusions really do need to be considered and reaching these unflattering conclusions is sometimes necessary. Respect and disrespect can both be earned depending on one's actions. Holding a false sense of respect for others is no better than holding a false sense of disrespect.Let God be the judge; present your opinions, dispute the opinions of others, and do it in an honest, respectful way. Very little true conversion is going to take place here; the best we should hope for is a little better understanding of our fellow Christians.
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