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Depression does often affect our ability to feel. It sounds like you have reached the I can't cry anymore stage. Rest assured this will cycle past in most cases - especially if you are Bipolar. Otherwise, if you are mainly depressed, medications can bring these emotional abilities back into place again. Furthermore and not so nice is sinking deeper into depression can restore the ability to cry as well, often becoming times of major 'flooding.'
That God may grant you the ability to cope.

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so much stuff is happeening in my head and i do feel down but i cant cry anymore i dont understand !and its scaring me coz i know im gna have to vent it at sumpoint and the last time was self harm ! how can i make myself cry?


I can totaly relate. Sometimes i thought it was just because I was a guy. but even lately there have been times when I've been so down that all I want to do is shed a few tears, and no matter how hard I try they won't come. It's almot frustrating. :confused:
 
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so much stuff is happeening in my head and i do feel down but i cant cry anymore i dont understand !and its scaring me coz i know im gna have to vent it at sumpoint and the last time was self harm ! how can i make myself cry?

My thoughts and prayers are with u hun, Have u tried seekin help for the way u are feeling? And especially if u r self harming, I would talk to a professional if i was you, I suffer with depression and often cry and feel so unhappy and worthless, Its not a nice feelin at all, in the past I have had thoughts of ending my life, But at that point i realised that I needed to seek help, And now I am getting better with medication not for everyone i know but works for me, I am alse recieving therapy now to help with the way i think, I hope things work out for u, And I'm always here if u need a chat, ok? :thumbsup: xx
 
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so much stuff is happeening in my head and i do feel down but i cant cry anymore i dont understand !and its scaring me coz i know im gna have to vent it at sumpoint and the last time was self harm ! how can i make myself cry?
Sorry your having such a hard time. If you want to talk pm me or email. I'd be glad to listen and help if I can.

Praying for you.
 
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You've moved from being moderately depressed to severely depressed, which means that you may need to think about taking anti-depressants. If you're already taking them, maybe you could ask your doctor to increase you're dose. Any changes will take about two weeks to start having an affect. Often people are reluctant to take medication as they see it as a failure on their part, but it isn't, depression is an illness and it needs to be treated, dont suffer needlessly when there are things that can help.
 
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You've moved from being moderately depressed to severely depressed, which means that you may need to think about taking anti-depressants. If you're already taking them, maybe you could ask your doctor to increase you're dose. Any changes will take about two weeks to start having an affect. Often people are reluctant to take medication as they see it as a failure on their part, but it isn't, depression is an illness and it needs to be treated, dont suffer needlessly when there are things that can help.
I can also relate to this. But i think you gave the right answer, I would go to your dr. and let him know how you are feeling. My daughter was a self harmer. I and my husband suffer from depression. I hadn't had a about of it ontil last week for many years. God healed me and I believe he will heal you too. This is my prayer for you.

I am lifting you up in prayer, my special friend, If you ever want to talk PM me anytime. My Name is Starr.
 
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a general rule of thumb for meds. If you have only ever had one bout of depression you should continue to take antidepressants for at least six months from being stable, and then withdraw very slowly under medical supervision. If you have had bouts of depression before this time frame should be increased to at least one year from point of stability.

Like catrin (zaksmummy) said, depression is both a physical and mental illness and both go around in a vicious circle feeding off one another. If you can get a book called mind over mood it would be great if not email me from my PM page and I will send you some stuff if you include email address.

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I have had depression for close to 15 years now and the last 10 or so years I couldnt cry. The last few months I was getting better and things started getting bad again. In between I could cry. Its really a defense mechanism because otherwise we would be crying all the time. So instead we do not cry at all.
 
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