Since responses to the topic were deleted, I would like to bring this up in a civil/non-confrontational manner.
A lot of people seem to take issue with men using words like "sweetie", "hun," "honey", "babe" and "darling" to address women. I am one of these people. It seems really disrespectful to me. In many settings (the workplace and even church), it could border on sexual harrassment. But I know that not everyone sees it this way.
It also seems very informal and something that I see a lot in American culture. In most places, women are addressed as madame, mademoiselle, señorita, señora, miss. It seems to me that some of that has been lost, in favor of more a familiar and perhaps disrespectful tones. Obviously, on a message board, I'm not expecting someone to address a woman as mademoiselle.
So, what do you think? What is inappropriate and appropriate?
A lot of people seem to take issue with men using words like "sweetie", "hun," "honey", "babe" and "darling" to address women. I am one of these people. It seems really disrespectful to me. In many settings (the workplace and even church), it could border on sexual harrassment. But I know that not everyone sees it this way.
It also seems very informal and something that I see a lot in American culture. In most places, women are addressed as madame, mademoiselle, señorita, señora, miss. It seems to me that some of that has been lost, in favor of more a familiar and perhaps disrespectful tones. Obviously, on a message board, I'm not expecting someone to address a woman as mademoiselle.
So, what do you think? What is inappropriate and appropriate?