SallyNow
Blame it on the SOCK GNOMES!
Saturday is abortion day at this abortion clinic. So is Tuesday and Thursday. This is a huge metro area and there are plenty of hospitals and doctor's offices around for the people to go to. We see the abortionist come and go and he does not have time in the couple of hours he is there to give real exams. Twenty-thirtyfive women show up on any given Saturday and the abortionist shows up and stays at most three hours.
About 99.9% of people going into that clinic are going in for an abortion (one exception was the young lady who thought her baby was dead).
You will have to excuse my ignorance. I do not know of such places that only perform abortions. I've not lived in the USA and therefore have not experienced the American health care system. .
However, I can say that the assumption that an abortion is a really quick procedure is not always correct. I can also say that a really quick exam - say, for a PAP smear - can take as little as -10 minutes. In a three hour period, 25 women can easily be seen, especially if the exam is done mostly by the nurse.
The assumption that there are "plenty of hospitals and doctor's offices around", so therefore a woman would rather go there, is not supportable. I know I'd rather go to a woman's clinic than an ER. And from what I do know of America's health-care system, not every person can go to every clinic, due to HMO and insurance restrictions.
And what is "an abortionist"? It's not a medical or scientific label. It's not a medical specialty.
And my answer still has not be answered: does this clinic work soley on abortion cases? Or is it a full-service OBGYN clinic that happens to also perform abortions?
They might not "need" to be bothered by us but so what if they are? They do not have to stop their car to talk to us if they are not interested.
I'm going to try to be diplomatic here. I've been to the doctor when I've been worried about results. A bunch of protesters outside a clinic would probably lead me to snap. I know many friends of all ages who have had to go to the doctor's for serious reasons and who would also be harmed by protesters outside the clinic.
Am I to believe that no one goes to this clinic by bike, bus, walking?
You know, I ran into a young lady who stopped to talk to us at the clinic last fall the other day. She chose to not kill her baby. We took her to the crisis pregnancy center, gave her a beautiful gift basket and a couple dozen roses. She is seven months pregnant and she gave both of us (me and my sister) a big hug and a thank you and told us that she was carrying a boy.
That's wonderful. Mind you, had she had better options, had she known that adoption was a good option, and that her baby would not go into a bad foster care system, she may have not even ever considered abortion.
I don't get why you would give her roses. A more useful gift would have been maternity clothes... a Baskin Robbins gift card... roses just seem rather showy.
Useless?
Perhaps you read the story (on this thread) of the young lady who was wrongly informed that her baby was dead. We stopped her from going in to abort her baby and she was simply thrilled that her baby was not dead
Malpractice, sadly, happens. Patients who are victims of malpractice need legal care and medical help, not propaganda.
Also, why would a woman be going in to a walk-in abortion-only clinic for an incomplete miscarriage? She wasn't going in for an abortion - she was going in for a incomplete miscarriage. She would need a full OBGYN workup for a incomplete miscarriage, something a place that only provides abortions would not provide.
Useless? Tragic???
What would have been tragic was if these two (and many others) had gone through with their abortions.
What is tragic is that so many women do kill their unborn children.
The centers we refer these women to provide this info.
Yes, it is useless and tragic to stand outside a medical clinic and cause stress to those going inside, not knowing why they are going. It is tragic to expect that a total stranger to a patient will know better than the doctor what that patient needs.
No ones future economic needs are assured. These women (and men - not all have absent fathers). There is government and Church assistence for the truly needy. Many of the women have family support.
Some of these women will have no family support, no health insurance. They have the option of having the child and giving him or her up to a shaky, scary foster care system (many of these women may have gone through the system themselves, hence having no family) and now they are being guilted into a decision, rather than having true support.
American government support is often far from sufficient unless a person already has family support. Not everyone is a member of the Catholic Church.
If we killed everone who did not have an their entire life needs provided for there woud be very few, if any, people alive.
And there's that anti-abortion attitude! It's easier to protest and hand out flyers than to assure that everyone has access to medical care, that the foster care system is solid, that all public schools are safe, that middle-class families can afford to adopt children rather than be foster families who have little control over how long a child stays!
Lobbying for better medical coverage for all takes more time than protesting! Getting a Master's degree in psychology and a teacher's certificate so one can work in inner-city schools takes work! Helping middle-class families raise money to adopt takes a screening process, time, energy, and organization! Fixing the foster care system requires actually fostering kids, and also getting involved in the politics!
Protesting at clinics gets all those "good work" endorphines going without actually helping the "unborn babies" once they are born. Handing out flyers is even hands-on!
I doubt anyone in this discussion does yell and scream and harass women who are going into medical clinics, but I do think that it is another level in the "good works"-without-actually-doing-much feel-good feeling!
She told us.
The abortion mill is right across the street from a forest preserve and a lovely river. The only polllution is the booze bottles left by the homeless guys who camp out there. They talk to us and they are very pro-life.
Giving out pamphlets that people don't read is useless waste. And just think... if protesters instead worked for 4 hours a week and gave that money to education funds, those homeless men could go to trades courses and get jobs! And a PO box could help those men get jobs, as a person needs an address to get a job. You know - I think that he turnarounds we have makes our Saturyday morning time very well spent. So apparently did the young mother of the little boy we ran into the the other day.
So would be spending time with children born additcted to cocaine (many women go for abortions after they realize they are pregnant and have been taking harmful drugs). Standing outside a medical clinic is fine -whatever floats your boat - as long as no one is harassed, hurt, yelled at, or assumed to be a "bad woman".
If she was going for a D&C then she wasn't going in for an abortion and has nothing to do with this debate unless you believe the first doctor was lying just so she would abort???
Medical malpractice and doctor error is an entirely different matter.
Yes, it is a different matter. It doesn't make sense to me that a doctor would send a woman who has had an incomplete miscarriage to a place that only performs abortions and does not perform OBGYN services. In fact, it would make no medical sense at all. A doctor who would do such a thing should probably be investigated.
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Finally! We agree!