An unregenerate heart cannot please God, but it can understand that there is something better.
1 Cor 2:14 The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and
he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned.
Man was made by God for fellowship with God.
Rev 4:11 Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things,
and for thy pleasure they are and were created.
Pro 16:4
The LORD hath made all things for himself: yea, even the wicked for the day of evil.
Man, and everything else, was made first for God's glory. More delusionary self-importance.
The fall removed that fellowship so we spend our lives trying to fill that emptyness.
Missing fellowship with God would be a thing "of the Spirit of God" would it not? If a natural man can't even discern such things, how would he yearn to "fill that emptyness"?
Of our own choice we will not listen to God because the bling of a fallen life seems so much more attractive than the treasure offered by God we are blinded.
Its far worse than just "bling", and it far more than just one thing being more "attractive" than another.
Rom 3:10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
Rom 3:11
There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
Rom 3:12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable;
there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
Rom 3:13 Their throat is an open sepulchre; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps is under their lips:
Rom 3:14 Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness:
Rom 3:15 Their feet are swift to shed blood:
Rom 3:16 Destruction and misery are in their ways:
Rom 3:17 And the way of peace have they not known:
Rom 3:18
There is no fear of God before their eyes.
But God reaches through that blindness and opens our eyes, maybe just enough to get us interested.
But no natural man will "get interested" (see scripture above). So it must be more than just "getting us interested". There must be some radical change performed on the person from outside himself, from the Spirit of God. He doesn't just meet us halfway, He overthrows our entire nature as a Conquerer.
Jesus tells that those who seek, find and those who knock wil be let in. Jesus speaks of us resonding to God.
More eisegesis. See EDB19's post. Stop using scripture out of context.
Your teachers are blind and believe a lie about God and His salvation of His elect. Their lie tickles you ears because it feeds the pride of your flesh. To think you're not
so bad that you couldn't choose repentance over damnation is to think exceedingly far more highly of yourself than you ought. But your pride likes that idea, so you cling to false teaching tenaciously against a multitude of scripture to the contrary. May God grant you repentance.