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Do YOU have a crush on anyone?

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I haven't had a crush in ages, I kind of miss the warm and fuzzies of having one.
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Crushes IMHO last only a second.

I had one last from 7th grade until I finally no longer had her around me when I entered college.

So basically 5 to 6 years.
 
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You are not the only one.

I would honestly prefer that I never had them. Lets just say I think the quote "Its better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all" is the biggest line of BS anyone has ever made up.
 
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I would honestly prefer that I never had them.

You sound like me. At the moment, I am deeply regretting the biggest crush I ever had, after I found her at Facebook last month. :sigh:
 
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Crushes are dumb.
I am in complete agreement. But yet again, maybe I am just bitter after finding athe girl I had a gigantic crush on ten years ago at Facebook, only to find out that there are some real problems with her lifestyle. :sigh:
 
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I am in complete agreement. But yet again, maybe I am just bitter after finding athe girl I had a gigantic crush on ten years ago at Facebook, only to find out that there are some real problems with her lifestyle. :sigh:

Yeah, but you can't expect someone's lifestyle choices to be the same as they were at 12. Isn't that a bit unrealistic?

Anyway, I love that this thread is back up here. I think its a lot of fun! :thumbsup:
 
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Ok maybe its just me but a crush is sort of the intial attraction to a person and their personality is it not? I just don't see how crushes can be dumb because I think in order to reach love you have to go through a crush phase do you not?
 
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Ok maybe its just me but a crush is sort of the intial attraction to a person and their personality is it not? I just don't see how crushes can be dumb because I think in order to reach love you have to go through a crush phase do you not?

I agree.

I think what they are saying is its dumb to have a crush when it only stays that way and nothing more is going to be developed.
 
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I agree.

I think what they are saying is its dumb to have a crush when it only stays that way and nothing more is going to be developed.

Oh I don't know, I think sometimes its alright as long as it doesn't go too far . . .

The guy I share my office with says he has a crush on Reba McIntire. He has a wife of 37 or so years and everything, he just think Reba's cute and "a sweetiepie"
 
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The guy I was interested in my last post in this thread (I think I've posted this before)... anyway, he's probably moving across the country soon... so again, there is no chance for us even if he felt the same for me.

goodness... i'm so afraid. why? i don't know. afraid of losing all chances perhaps. or afraid of the moment when he tells me he's met 'the one' and I know it isn't me. ah well... this happens.
 
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