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Do YOU have a crush on anyone?

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I'm not sure. He waited until everyone left the room and he's like "I need to talk to you". He takes a few minutes to explain how he knows I like him. (He talks way too much...) I ask him how he found out and he says he just knew... What In The World?
 
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I'm not sure. He waited until everyone left the room and he's like "I need to talk to you". He takes a few minutes to explain how he knows I like him. (He talks way too much...) I ask him how he found out and he says he just knew... What In The World?

Wow, awkward conversation -- how are things between you two now?
 
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oh, and i have an interest in a guy i could never be with. isn't that what crushes are? woo fun.

That and not knowing whether or not they actually like you. That's where I am at at the moment. I think that I am sick and tired of having a crush! I wish it would just be over and done with.
 
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That and not knowing whether or not they actually like you. That's where I am at at the moment. I think that I am sick and tired of having a crush! I wish it would just be over and done with.

Ugh, that's an awful part of crushes. And what if you're like 90% sure that he isn't interested back, but that 10% uncertainty is just enough to keep the crush alive?

Crushes are pathetic.
 
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That and not knowing whether or not they actually like you. That's where I am at at the moment. I think that I am sick and tired of having a crush! I wish it would just be over and done with.
i guess i'm ok with my situation because i know he doesn't like me, and i don't expect him to. since i don't want another long distance relationship he's kind of out of my reach anyway. :) but it's fun to daydream about him once in a while. we've been friends for years and have liked each other before but nothing came of it. i don't think it ever will. but hey, it's nice to have such a great friend
 
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i guess i'm ok with my situation because i know he doesn't like me, and i don't expect him to. since i don't want another long distance relationship he's kind of out of my reach anyway. :) but it's fun to daydream about him once in a while. we've been friends for years and have liked each other before but nothing came of it. i don't think it ever will. but hey, it's nice to have such a great friend
True but I guess that mine is too close to me at the moment so I just want to run. It's hard that way - I just want to say/do something but then I know that by doing that it could just make the situation go from bad to worse. Life is like that I guess
 
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Ugh, that's an awful part of crushes. And what if you're like 90% sure that he isn't interested back, but that 10% uncertainty is just enough to keep the crush alive?

Crushes are pathetic.
Oh yeah and that's the other problem - how do you survive a crush? What happens when it all falls to pieces and everyone knows the fact that you had a crush and that ... oh dear its all too much to handle. It's like this major tug-of-war inside your head that just keeps going. I like the idea of a crush but now that I have one I am not sure that I like it any more ...
 
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True - I wish this was reality not all in my head. I have been trying to let is go but I just can't. I know that sounds weird but I guess I really just don't want to give up hope. Oh well.

No, it doesn't sound weird. I know exactly what you mean. :hug:
 
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