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Well, I am trying hard to be upbeat right now as this is the month I would be giving birth. I try to block it out but it's hard somedays! Especially when I see those who have just given birth or are going to this month.

I pray for those of you on here!!!:prayer: :hug:

And if you want to use this thread just to vent or what not go ahead!:hug:
 

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It was one year on February 1st for the day that my daughter was born, stillborn at 5 months. I empathize with you...it is hard...and it will always be difficult for you. The hope of seeing your child again someday helps get you through hard times. We're here for you if you need to talk.

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I miscarried last week. It is so hard. I will pray for you PM me if you want to talk.

My heart goes out to you!!! :hug: :prayer:

Do you have any children?

It was one year on February 1st for the day that my daughter was born, stillborn at 5 months. I empathize with you...it is hard...and it will always be difficult for you. The hope of seeing your child again someday helps get you through hard times. We're here for you if you need to talk.

Love and prayers,
Mekkin

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Dear, I am sooo sorry to hear! :hug: You are exactly right though in that we will meet them again one day!

Prayers for the both of you & anyone else!
 
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I was pregnant with twins in 1991. I miscarried one twin and carried the other full term. I also lost a child in 1994 to miscarriage. Its very hard to deal with. I just think about the joy of having Jesus place them into my arms when I get to heaven, and I find comfort in that my dad is now in heaven and he is taking care of them until I get there. I am sure they are playing with the infant daughter of one of my close friends who was still born at 20 weeks.
 
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Thanks for sharing that and sooo sorry for your losses. I know it's hard as well & it seems soemtimes that people do not think it is a big deal like ok you miscarried or had an ectopic preg but get over it. It just doesn't work like that imo.

Love the family pic!
 
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Thanks for sharing that and sooo sorry for your losses. I know it's hard as well & it seems soemtimes that people do not think it is a big deal like ok you miscarried or had an ectopic preg but get over it. It just doesn't work like that imo.

Love the family pic!
It is very hard, but God brings you through it. Thanks for the comment on the pic
 
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awww wow!! :( *hugs tulip and llghoney* im so sorry for your losses. i had a m/c in 2006. its very hard, although it was by r*pe i was preg. but yeah it's still a loss.

if u need to talk tulip or honey, just pm me im here for u all. God is holding our angels. *cries* thats not what we want to be happening i know we want to be holding and kissing our baby but it didnt work out that way, so God has them and when we get to heaven, they will run to us, their mommies and say i love u mommy i missed u. i bet they will say that.

hugs to all

if u need to talk or want a new friend, please feel free to pm me.

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awww wow!! :( *hugs tulip and llghoney* im so sorry for your losses. i had a m/c in 2006. its very hard, although it was by r*pe i was preg. but yeah it's still a loss.

if u need to talk tulip or honey, just pm me im here for u all. God is holding our angels. *cries* thats not what we want to be happening i know we want to be holding and kissing our baby but it didnt work out that way, so God has them and when we get to heaven, they will run to us, their mommies and say i love u mommy i missed u. i bet they will say that.

hugs to all

if u need to talk or want a new friend, please feel free to pm me.

~michelle~ (alicia)

Thanks!

lghoney - this is a bit late, but I wanted to know I was thinking of you.

Aww, it's never too late! Thanks! How are you doing? Are you guys trying again?
 
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We'd like to, but it seems like the m/c has reawakened some anovulary problems I had when I was younger. No egg this month and still no AF either. It's kind of frustrating.

Otherwise, I'm starting to feel better. Thanks for asking.

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Glad your feeling better!! Your time will come!!:prayer:
 
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