I know what intercession is. I don't ask anyone to pray for me either. Why ask someone to pray for me when I can do it myself? I prefer to pray for myself. I feel it important enough that I go directly to God. Asking people to pray for you instead of doing it for yourself is laziness in my book. There is no excuse for it.
Even if I did ask someone to pray for me it certainly wouldn't be a spirit who cannot hear nor communicate with me. With the Lord and His Son as exceptions, of course.
That is your problem that you don't ask anyone to pray for you. It doesn't make it wrong.
Why ask someone to pray for you when you can do it yourself? Well excuse me. No one said that we don't pray for ourselves, or for other's for that matter. And just because we ask someone to pray for us, let's say for something specific, it doesn't mean we don't pray for ourself. But I guess you feel prideful enough to not need anyone to pray for you. But I see you are young, and are influenced by American culture. I remember when I was a kid, I didn't need anybody. How stupid I was..
Asking people to pray for you is laziness? Well never heard that one before. I guess James suggested we all be lazy when he said for us to pray for one another. I guess Paul was lazy when he asked the Churches he wrote his Epistles to, to pray for him. Poor lazy Paul. Asking people to pray for him, what laziness!!!
I feel it important enough that I go directly to God
I must reply to this by itself. Before you said that Jesus was the intercessor to God. So how is it you pray to God, and bypass Jesus?
I have explained my view. I don't think intercession has anything to do with it. Maybe it was Mary's simple concern for the wedding party to have wine. Maybe it was Mary's personal attempt to show the people that Chirst was the Messiah through His turning water into wine.
And when they wanted wine, the mother of Jesus saith unto him, They have no wine.
She obviously somehow knew they ran out of wine. Now if it was her concern for the wedding party, does that take away her intercession? This view of yours actually shows how special the Mother of the Lord is. They didn't even have to ask her to intercede, she did it herself!!
Also if it was her personal attempt to show the people Jesus was the Messiah, does that also take away her intercession? She still helped them when they needed it, by asking Jesus to perform His first miracle. Does it really matter why she did it? She still interceded, you can't take that away, regardless what her purpose was.
It's like an atheist trying to disprove God by citing evolution. Does it mean, even if we evolved from monkey's, that God didn't create the monkey's we evolved from?