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Do YOU have a crush on anyone?

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Alexander1982

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Boy do I have a big story about crushes. Some of you would know my story already (well at least Princess Pea does), so I won't say it again.

The girl in question in which I had strong feelings for was one of the most uniquely beautiful person I've seen in my life. She was the 'marriage' of innocence and purity (I'll chuck in intelligence in there as well) - a purity that must be defended.

Such incredible beauty begotten by the marriage of purity and innocence, walking in a world filled with sick lust, arrogance and pornography. I would really hate to see such beauty get destroyed by lust.

However I did take the courage to talk to her last year and then when Valentines day came.....:doh: :cry:
I choose not to see her again. After what happened last year I sort of became distrusting towards my heart and as a result distrusting towards God
 
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BlessedJourney said:
Nope-- do crushes go away with age? ;)
Not that I've noticed. :p It's been a good 3 years since I've had one, though - maybe because since then I had the longest relationship of my life and then lost it. It took a while to recover to the point where I could even think about anyone else.

I hope I can avoid crushes in the future. They're seriously annoying.
 
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Princess Pea said:
Not that I've noticed. :p It's been a good 3 years since I've had one, though - maybe because since then I had the longest relationship of my life and then lost it. It took a while to recover to the point where I could even think about anyone else.

I hope I can avoid crushes in the future. They're seriously annoying.

I sort of expanded on this arguement on my thread "infatuations are evil". Bloody crushes - stupid piece of crap :mad:
 
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I'm actually getting over a crush. I actually thought he was the one God had for me and so did my family. I prayed to God that if he wasn't the one that he would make it very clear. We became closer and now he's one of my bestfriends now. But for some reason I like him less in that way, but see him more as a really good friend. Its like God took away my feelings for him, so I wouldn't be hurt in the long run.
 
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