I'm cooking, watching TV, eating oatmeal, fixing my hair, and getting ready for the memorial service. My husband's brother has died at the age of 71, and today the family is saying goodbye. Goodbye, Ken. You were sweet, thoughtful, rebellious, stubborn, talented, loud quiet, and this last year, and way before that at special times that only you know about, you turned to your Father in heaven and discovered His grace. I wil do my best today with your family, and if the opportunity comes, I will comfort your father and tell him that he was a good dad to you.