I just got off the phone with my sister and she is angry with me for calling my dad's ex-wife Donna mom. First of all why should I have to defend my self to my sister????? If she doesn't want to call her mom then WHAT EVER! But I shouldnt have to answer to her or anyone.
I did not chose this situation, I just have to live it out and deal with it and make the best of it the best I know how. First of all My biological mom made every excuse in the book not to see us and would make plans with us and cancell them, and one time we caughter her with my brother after she cancled her plans with us. She missed my older sisters wedding because her car broke down half way her so she got a ride back to Oregon....I don't know about anyone else but if my first child was getting married I would do everything in my power to be there, she treats my daughter as if she doesn't exist (except for this last month she is making the effort) and so on and so on.
My dads ex-wife Donna has only been with a short time, but was there for my wedding, did both my sisters weddings, was there for the birth of my daughter, was there when she was dedicated (not my bio mom) was there when she was born (not my bio mom) was there AT EVERY BDAY(not my bio mom) so she has been more of a mom to me than by bio mom or Shelly.
They are all family why can't every one just get along? They have all done horrible things, but it doesn't matter the only thing that matters is that they are trying. Non of the things they did are any worse than the other. I hate the thought of one being by them selves for the holidays, but non can get along with the other and ERRRRR I just hate feeling this way, but they each did it to themselves, the only innocent one in this whole ordeal is my dad and our children.
All I want to do is help others and do it without making others mad in the process, why does it always have to come down to what they have done? Haven't we done things ourselves that is just as bad? Since when did helping someone in need come with rules that say only if they deserve it? If that was the case we would all be screwed! Oh well to each there own. I just want to love everyone and appariently thats just not possible so whatever....Guess Im just going back to serving the Lord on my own terms....I just get so frustrated *sigh*
I did not chose this situation, I just have to live it out and deal with it and make the best of it the best I know how. First of all My biological mom made every excuse in the book not to see us and would make plans with us and cancell them, and one time we caughter her with my brother after she cancled her plans with us. She missed my older sisters wedding because her car broke down half way her so she got a ride back to Oregon....I don't know about anyone else but if my first child was getting married I would do everything in my power to be there, she treats my daughter as if she doesn't exist (except for this last month she is making the effort) and so on and so on.
My dads ex-wife Donna has only been with a short time, but was there for my wedding, did both my sisters weddings, was there for the birth of my daughter, was there when she was dedicated (not my bio mom) was there when she was born (not my bio mom) was there AT EVERY BDAY(not my bio mom) so she has been more of a mom to me than by bio mom or Shelly.
They are all family why can't every one just get along? They have all done horrible things, but it doesn't matter the only thing that matters is that they are trying. Non of the things they did are any worse than the other. I hate the thought of one being by them selves for the holidays, but non can get along with the other and ERRRRR I just hate feeling this way, but they each did it to themselves, the only innocent one in this whole ordeal is my dad and our children.
All I want to do is help others and do it without making others mad in the process, why does it always have to come down to what they have done? Haven't we done things ourselves that is just as bad? Since when did helping someone in need come with rules that say only if they deserve it? If that was the case we would all be screwed! Oh well to each there own. I just want to love everyone and appariently thats just not possible so whatever....Guess Im just going back to serving the Lord on my own terms....I just get so frustrated *sigh*
