yep, I picked emoticon that because I'm sad but I'm also excited because I have a lot to do (that i can do) and tie up some loose ends (lol now that the hubby got paid)...
guess I'm also blah too
like ok I'm going to go ahead and pull out the stops and make things clear (it's about time lol) and if they hear they hear, if they don't they don't
if they get angry and drop me oh well
Do I care, yes
but how much have I invested in this yet?
5yrs, 10? My childhood? ROTFL
On the the other hand we are very "compatable" and that's pretty hard to find.
Yet I see this may be whats causing problems (at least for me lol)... the same Modus Operendi
Being kind & or compassionate is an important trait to me (certainly if I'm going to even part way trust someone in order to be a friend-friend: criteria)
what am i getting into, forget that last paragraph, that's not where I want to go right now...
ok switching now, let's say their MO is like mine only more so...
So I'm going to call them on this: "ok is it this or this?either"...
It's driving me crazy (lol but not in the same way that someone else did\does, different MO, no?)
Its driving me crazy,not in an emotional way but in a practical way...however its getting to the point of frustrating- which is now making me emotional about it....
I do not like feeling like I can't get something done...unfortunately frustration (especially buried) for me can lead to anger- and I don't want to take that out on anyone else.
So I'm going to confront them and if they whatever- then I won't bother anymore...
Maybe because they also have a good measure of kindness in them- they just don't want to come out and say it.
ROTFL ooor it could be another one of those convoluted complicated sub passive deeply buried type issues.
Which, causes people to act in ways that don't make rational sense....
LOL not that I don't have any of those....
guess I'm also blah too
like ok I'm going to go ahead and pull out the stops and make things clear (it's about time lol) and if they hear they hear, if they don't they don't
if they get angry and drop me oh well
Do I care, yes
but how much have I invested in this yet?
5yrs, 10? My childhood? ROTFL
On the the other hand we are very "compatable" and that's pretty hard to find.
Yet I see this may be whats causing problems (at least for me lol)... the same Modus Operendi
Being kind & or compassionate is an important trait to me (certainly if I'm going to even part way trust someone in order to be a friend-friend: criteria)
what am i getting into, forget that last paragraph, that's not where I want to go right now...
ok switching now, let's say their MO is like mine only more so...
So I'm going to call them on this: "ok is it this or this?either"...
It's driving me crazy (lol but not in the same way that someone else did\does, different MO, no?)
Its driving me crazy,not in an emotional way but in a practical way...however its getting to the point of frustrating- which is now making me emotional about it....
I do not like feeling like I can't get something done...unfortunately frustration (especially buried) for me can lead to anger- and I don't want to take that out on anyone else.
So I'm going to confront them and if they whatever- then I won't bother anymore...
Maybe because they also have a good measure of kindness in them- they just don't want to come out and say it.
ROTFL ooor it could be another one of those convoluted complicated sub passive deeply buried type issues.
Which, causes people to act in ways that don't make rational sense....
LOL not that I don't have any of those
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