Frustration

So Im a little frustrated to night, went grocerie shopping, then afterward I really wanted to go to this chinese baffet, Tonie doesn't like it so I don't ever ask to go, but tonight I just really it, they have this hot tea there that is just YUM! I have been craving it for weeks. I told Tonie that that is were we were going for dinner and he practically threw a fit. I don't ask to go to "my" places to eat because I let him and Rozzie decide. During dinner he just sat there and complained about how gross this was and that was and stuck his hat down over his face, pretty soon Rozzie started in. Then I had this steamed oyester that I was really wanting to eat and of course he had to make a comment about that, then Rozzie had something on her plate that she didn't like so she stuck it right on my oyster so I couldn't eat it All I wanted was a nice family dinner with nice converstation and all I got was attitude. So I started feeling angry, but according to this book that Rozzie's councelor gave me to read on anger the message of it seems to be that if anger is being selfish, so then I started feeling like I was being selfish so anyways it was a not very good dinner. I pretty much just payed for the bill and left because I was tired of seeing and hearing it