• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

"Do you blame God?"

I got asked if I blame God for my miscarriage. I got asked if I blame pretty much anyone...the answer is no. I cannot assume I know anything about WHY this happened, because frankly, I am dumbfounded...I can just hold on and pray that for some glorious reason, it has occurred, and my child is now with the Lord.

I blame myself for the most part. It's my body that does this. That brings my total to 4...4 lost children...

For now I am just muddling through, still pretty numb, not really accepting what has occurred. I fear for the time it completely hits me, whenever that may be, though I frankly have no clue when.

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