Well, about two months ago I left my husband because I found out he cheated on me. It has been a rough ride from there. He harassed me for most of those two months, left text message after text message, and if I didn't respond because I was busy at work or school he would get angry and his texts would become baligarant.
I have lived in an attic so far, and no Im in an RV. He claims that he is changed and is going to give his life to Christ but Im not sure that its not just a front to get me back. It took him a month to take this step and that was after I told him I sent the divorce papers in because he had three weeks to do something (get a marriage counsorl, get himself a counsoler for his porn/sex problem, and go to church) he chose to do non of them so I sent in the divorce papers and now he is showing up for church ....
kinda odd. Im not really sure what to think so I gave him the pastors number and told him to talk with him if he was seriouse.
I checked his facebook, and he is talking to this girl whom appatently is going through the same thing rather she cheated on her husband or he cheated on her Im not sure but she gave my husband her phone number so they could talk. The thing is, his excuse for cheating on me with the first girl was because she was easy to talk to.... so is he sleeping with this girl too? Should I ignor this? She I allow him to have female friends? What???? I don't know. I was considering maybe dating him again after he goes through counceling and if he really did change and give his life to Christ. But Im not so sure now.
Also, when we first broke up he told his brother my stipulations if he me back, and so when he got on facebook and told everyone that he was tired of living like he was and something had to change, that he was changing his brother got on and told him that he doesn't have to change anything and to "F" anyone who wants him to change, that they could take an "F"ing pipe and put it somewhere and a few choice other things. I called Tonie and asked him if he would put on facebook that no one is making him change that this is his choice because I feel that his brothers statement was aimed at me .... I told him I felt like his brother was attacking me. He pretty much said no, so once again this man who wants his wife back and is willing to do anything to get her back isn't even willing to stand up for her, he never has stood up for me so not really sure what I expected, but it hurt my feelings. So now I am really confused, do I want him back, should I go back or should I suck it all up and move on even if his proclaimed change is real?
life is so hard sometimes
I have lived in an attic so far, and no Im in an RV. He claims that he is changed and is going to give his life to Christ but Im not sure that its not just a front to get me back. It took him a month to take this step and that was after I told him I sent the divorce papers in because he had three weeks to do something (get a marriage counsorl, get himself a counsoler for his porn/sex problem, and go to church) he chose to do non of them so I sent in the divorce papers and now he is showing up for church ....
kinda odd. Im not really sure what to think so I gave him the pastors number and told him to talk with him if he was seriouse.I checked his facebook, and he is talking to this girl whom appatently is going through the same thing rather she cheated on her husband or he cheated on her Im not sure but she gave my husband her phone number so they could talk. The thing is, his excuse for cheating on me with the first girl was because she was easy to talk to.... so is he sleeping with this girl too? Should I ignor this? She I allow him to have female friends? What???? I don't know. I was considering maybe dating him again after he goes through counceling and if he really did change and give his life to Christ. But Im not so sure now.
Also, when we first broke up he told his brother my stipulations if he me back, and so when he got on facebook and told everyone that he was tired of living like he was and something had to change, that he was changing his brother got on and told him that he doesn't have to change anything and to "F" anyone who wants him to change, that they could take an "F"ing pipe and put it somewhere and a few choice other things. I called Tonie and asked him if he would put on facebook that no one is making him change that this is his choice because I feel that his brothers statement was aimed at me .... I told him I felt like his brother was attacking me. He pretty much said no, so once again this man who wants his wife back and is willing to do anything to get her back isn't even willing to stand up for her, he never has stood up for me so not really sure what I expected, but it hurt my feelings. So now I am really confused, do I want him back, should I go back or should I suck it all up and move on even if his proclaimed change is real?
life is so hard sometimes
