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Now as if things were not hard enough, my daughter who is 20 has a beautiful baby girl. The baby was sick so my daughter and a man she was dating took my granddaughter to the ER. Then they had to get her RX, so my daughter left the baby in the car with the guy so she was not out in the bad...
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Years later I married another man. He spent our wedding night calling people we went to school with to tell them he had married me. I think that should have been my first clue. He told me all the time I was out of his league. We had a daughter also. He used to come in with hickeys on his neck...
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I graduated in May of 1989. A week after graduation my long term boyfriend and I broke up. I think it was the stress from the fact that in Feb on my 18th birthday we had a car wreck and I nearly died. He and I split up for the entire summer. In August I enrolled in college. The day before I had...
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Where I lived at middle school was 5th-8th grade. When I was in 5th grade I had a neighbor who was an alcoholic. He lived at home with his parents and he was in his 30's. I had to walk past his house from my bus stop. I remember he would always yell at me and tell me to come see him and stuff...
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I do not recall much of my life before kindergarden. I can recall once witnessing my mother shoot at a man who was breaking into our apartment. I do not know if she actually shot him, she has said she shot him in the behind which is funny in a way. I just remember hiding around the corner of a...
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I had a blog on here years ago with the same name I chose for this blog. I wrote about the many trials I have faced in life, in hopes that perhaps someone could be helped through it, or maybe someone would not feel so alone. I am frequently told my life should be a soap opera or a reality tv...

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