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Am I in the middle of something here?

Well things didn't exactly go as I wanted (though I had a great day yesterday) but I did find out some information or rather confirmation of something I had suspected- which I get the feeling is connected to some degree. First it came while we were waiting in line together & talking , that I was looking for so & so - C. Then my new friend (hopefully) tells me that the child she is carrying is C's nephew (took me awhile to understand clear , it was C's sisters son's child). when I mentioned or asked about this I called him "the father of your baby" because I wasn't sure if they were still together or not. Anyway they helped me get C , but later when C was talked to them & me I could sense some tension there. Then this other girl (well she is a young lady now) was talking to her, and me . It seemed she was getting along with her (lets call she =M3) ok now M3 is very close w these two sisters- I'll call M1 & M2. I was good friends w/ M1 for awhile, M2 and I got along fine as long as I didn't talk to her about God (she once told me that)- she's a rather hard person. OK, M1 & M2 are C's daughters. M3 is friends with all of them. This new gal is carrying the baby of C's nephew...
I'm not sure if M3 is actually friends w/ ...lets call her J or if she is just acting like that- because she can. I didn't sense any tension there, but you never know... how gals can be...


I did notice that when I said something like I was or used to be friends with M1, that point fell flat w/ J.No further questions or statements were made about that. I would have been happy to talk further about it...but no such opportunity came up. So who knows what M3 was going to go back & tell the rest- hopefully nothing bad.
I was really suspicious when as I looked at their list online, some people aren't there, even though there are many others from that general circle (and you would think even more if they're all goinf to be realted through this baby) -in fact as I look right now M3 isn't even on there- though they seemed to be getting along and talking fine !?

So right about now anyone who is used to drama can pick up where this going....normally I hate this kind of drama...ug but because of the people involved in here this makes it even worse.
Sooo then I find out today a bit more details.

C comes to me acting all worried like, did you call J? I'm like, why? Then they let me know C used to be roomates w/ J- she lived with her for awhile. And I take it not a good experience for her...

Then she says she mentioned it to my old friend ( her daughter) M1, and she was like M1 was something like "oh no not my girl" (like over me getting connected up w/ J) ROFL oh I'm "her girl" again... you could of fooled me! On the other hand if M1 sincerely ment that, then I am touched and humbled she still has some good feelings/thoughts for/of me.

I told her,"tell M1 that I appreciate her looking out for me". And C went on as she always does, lists how M1 still has these various items I gave her...then she says she asked if I called her, and M1 (I can just hear her attidue now) was like mom - (me) hasn't called me..."
I don't know what's really going on there. OK I called her a while back but her box was full I suppose I could have tried more. Then I think I wasn't sure if she changed numbers. But hey, I tried a lot to talk to her online. OK so she doesn't do it by computer, but don''t play with me that she can't respond - when I see she is able to post pics and responded to other comments...but I didn't tell their mom that. So if C goes through that again, I may just do that and say-look I tried to contact her through online and wrote a bunch of stuff but she didn't respond back.

Part 2. after Dr.Who

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