I will be the first to admit that my choices aren't always the most mature but how does being young have to do with imaturity and inexperiance. My problem here is I am a new mother with a now 8 month old little boy who is my world. As many of you might have already read I'm also 19. My fiance is 18. Everyone around us wants to raise our son for us (and with my fiance trying to feed my son chicken nuggets and french fries because he's got a tooth I can understand a little). But I'm doing just fine with him. I've read all the parenting books and am trying to build off of my parent's bad example and turn it around for a positive outcome. And because I've had a troubled past with both my parents on drugs and being in and out of foster care throughout my teen years somehow people equate it with being a bad mother and no one more than my soon to be inlaws. Everytime I say what I'm intending to do it's not right. I want my son to be off the bottle and pacifier by the age of one because he already has five teeth. The inlaws say keep him on the bottle until he's three. I want to get my son to quit co-sleeping so I don't have a five year old in my bed. The inlaws say they slept with their children until they were seven. My grandma says I don't dress him right for the weather when she puts three shirts and a coat on him for fall! My mom says I need to take more pictures of him when I just haven't had the money to get them developed and everyone is telling me to find a babysitter and get a job even though I want to be there for my son until he goes to preschool at three (which isn't supposed to be until he's four according to my aunt). My fiance is working and we're on section 8 housing so we're financialy stable. How do I get these people off my case just because I'm 19. I know how I want to raise my son!
I especially get mad at everyone who tells me (my inlaws my grandparents and my mom) that I have to spank my child to discipline him later on or he won't listen. I refuse to do that!
I'm just tired of it he's not sick, abused or dead I must be doing something right.
I especially get mad at everyone who tells me (my inlaws my grandparents and my mom) that I have to spank my child to discipline him later on or he won't listen. I refuse to do that!
I'm just tired of it he's not sick, abused or dead I must be doing something right.