In post #52, above, I just discovered how maybe the spell check made it say the exact opposite of what I meant. So, I have corrected it >
But I think it is a good point, how people need to be strong so wrong people
can't have power to hurt them with wrong words and other things.
"And who is he who will harm you if you become followers of what is good?" (
1 Peter 3:13)
But people are not perfect; so any of us can still be overly sensitive about certain things. So, we should feel for each other, but all of us need to become stronger so we can't be under the power of wrong people.
"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." (Romans 12:21)
I am wearing thin from my real anxiety disorder, and I especially don't appreciate when people think I'm joking around when I mention it to them.
Yeah, I think I understand this.
If someone tells me something about himself or herself, I take the person's word for it. If someone tells me about a medical trouble, I pray for the person to be healed, including that the person deeply becomes strong in Jesus so the medical thing can't have power over the person to torment the person, but the person trusts God. And if someone tells me about a sin problem, I pray for the person to be deeply corrected and
"healed" more into God's love >
"Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much." (James 5:16)
I am about 68 years old, and now I am forgetting stuff and losing things more; and I tell people this, and they outrightly deny there is anything wrong. I suspect some are afraid of Alzheimers and afraid of losing control and their independence; so they don't want to hear even the subject of Alzheimers and mental illnesses. They might not want to hear about a problem you have, because they don't know what to do about it and they fear it.
But I understand Jesus wants us to feel for any person, about their medical problems and also about our sin problems >
"He can have compassion on those who are ignorant and going astray, since he himself is also subject to weakness." (Hebrews 5:2)
So, if you find there are people who are sinful in how they treat you, I would say have compassion on them and pray for them and care about them . . . while we deal with how we our own selves can be selfish and so about ourselves.
I myself have been negative and critical and despising of others, and this keeps me from being able to love.
I can have paranoid stuff attacking me and accusing people of wanting to mess with me. But I don't have to believe it. And if I get into fearing those people, it is clear that the Bible says God's love keeps us from fear; so I understand that the fear is not only a physical medical problem >
"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." (2 Timothy 1:7)
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love." (1 John 4:18)
So, when paranoid stuff messes with me, I can first trust God to get rid of however I might fear and not love the imagined attacking people, then submit to how God has me pray for them like Jesus wants us to love enemies; this is spiritual, which we always can do while we are functioning in God's love, even while we may have medical problems >
"Let all that you do be done with love." (1 Corinthians 16:14)
So physical medical problems can't stop this which is done by God's grace which is spiritual and gives us peace, deeper than any medical trouble which is only physical >
"My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness," Jesus says in 2 Corinthians 12:9. So, yes I am weak, but God's grace is almighty, and God is spiritual enough > Paul discovered how in his
"infirmities" he took
"pleasure" while he handled his troubles in grace > 2 Corinthians 12:10.
So, there are things which are a spiritual problem and they are masquerading as being only physical mental problems. I might get attacked with paranoid stuff; this is not my fault; but if I start getting into fear, this is deeper. And if I have a memory problem, this may not be my fault, but fearing and getting nasty is a deeper problem. With Jesus, in His love we have
"rest for your souls" spiritually (Matthew 11:28-30), even while our physical bodies have problems. And being unforgiving and expecting wrong people to change can be a way of not dealing with how I myself need correction > Hebrews 12:4-11, 1 Peter 4:17.
So, if people tell me they have a mental illness, I check to see if they have some selfish stuff sneaking around pretending to be part of their physical problem. The selfish stuff is not physical and medical, I offer, and our selfish stuff can be very deceptive to our own selves, and keep us from loving any and all people, including those who criticize and despise us. And the Bible is clear how we need to not allow any thing or person to have power over us (1 Corinthians 6:12, 1 Peter 3:13); so I don't buy how certain ones are promoting that people's circumstances and background have power to decide how a person is. Because if we are functioning in God's grace which is spiritual, this grace has God's own almighty peace which
"will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus", Paul says, in Philippians 4:6-7.
So, I am not being kind and compassionate if I don't help people know this and deal with how we all need correction. It can be "easier" to point our finger at how others are not being nice to us.