Thanks OP! (I agree)
Using any words that are for mental illness stigmatizes those of us who actually deal with them. This means that depression is nothing more than.... "they totally act depressed" "after watching that sad movie, i feel depressed". And OCD is nothing more than...."I like to clean, I'm really OCD" "they're OCD about matching their clothes". All the people who are
psychotic are nothing more than.... "they went psycho on the guy who broke into their apartment" "my ex-girlfriend was psychotic after finding out I lied". These words are either belittled and misunderstood (like the shy kid being called "antisocial"; lets hope you never meet an actual
anti-social person) or used by neurotypical people to make fun of themselves. I really don't appreciate when someone tries to insult others by calling them "depressed" or make fun of themselves by saying how "OCD" they are when I'm standing two feet away from them, actually dealing with these things, and trying not to feel like a complete joke. I don't like when anyone who feels nervous about something, is suddenly dealing with an "anxiety disorder"---I am
wearing thin from my
real anxiety disorder, and I
especially don't appreciate when people think I'm joking around when I mention it to them. If anyone thinks that those of us with mental/disorders are oversensitive or weak, please try and imagine how utterly desensitized we are to hearing these things or seeing how people react. But when we make a "fuss" it's because we're not enjoying the indirect (or direct)
insults.
"Crazy" is already a slur when referring to someones emotional/mental response to a situation. It's a dual-meaning word, and it goes along with outlandish situations "the crazy landslides going on in Washington" or "it's crazy how much money I won with that bet". But calling someone "crazy" for how they reacted,
is a slur.
Here's my rant:
Good for you if words are just words and meanings are only as important as you want them to be, but don't throw that shtick on the rest of us. Good for you if it's easy to make the same annoying "comebacks" to generalized sayings meant to keep people safe, but actual people benefit from those sayings being taken and understood seriously. I can't recall all the times a man has said how if he "was a girl" he'd "like if people..." as excuse for making light of dangerous situations or make excuse for acting in a reprehensible manner in response to "treat others the way you would like to be treated". Switch the variables, it's all the same. And it's fowl.