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My husband and I were talking the other night about "being Reformed" and how it used to be the end all be all of our existence but now, while being at the very core of what we believe, we are much more inclined to embrace wholly those who are truly saved in other denominations as Christians with whom we want to fellowship (without arguing theology at every point).
My point to all of this is that I told him that I would still only marry someone who was Reformed in his theology (were I single and in this more open/Christian mindset) because it truly does, IMHO, play a vital role in the raising of one's children and because marriage is hard enough without major doctrinal differences.
Anyway, my sister, who is Reformed, is marrying a guy who . . . is not Reformed. We love him and he is an awesome guy to hang with, but I can't help but wonder if they will run into some snags down the road because of their differing views.
Thoughts? Obviously it isn't going to change anything for my sister, but I am curious as to whether or not anyone has dated/married someone not Reformed and if theological issues did come up because of the intimacy (meaning considering marriage not physical intimacy) of the relationship. Would you consider dating/marrying someone not Reformed?
My point to all of this is that I told him that I would still only marry someone who was Reformed in his theology (were I single and in this more open/Christian mindset) because it truly does, IMHO, play a vital role in the raising of one's children and because marriage is hard enough without major doctrinal differences.
Anyway, my sister, who is Reformed, is marrying a guy who . . . is not Reformed. We love him and he is an awesome guy to hang with, but I can't help but wonder if they will run into some snags down the road because of their differing views.
Thoughts? Obviously it isn't going to change anything for my sister, but I am curious as to whether or not anyone has dated/married someone not Reformed and if theological issues did come up because of the intimacy (meaning considering marriage not physical intimacy) of the relationship. Would you consider dating/marrying someone not Reformed?