I've seen the other side of the coin where "some" black men consider it a "prize" or "trophy" to "get" a white woman. And if she's blonde it's a double bonus.
It's not right, but don't let their ignorance keep you down. Or try not to anyway.
Now image being white, and living in a black community. It's wrong, but it makes sense.
That is interesting. I have never heard of a black man considering a white woman as being aMaybe it's the stick with your own kind ideology or maybe its because of past struggles that Blacks had being minorities that some of them feel that they need to keep everything from being taken from them (even it is a black woman dating a white guy that of course they don't "own").
I've seen the other side of the coin where "some" black men consider it a "prize" or "trophy" to "get" a white woman. And if she's blonde it's a double bonus.
It's not right, but don't let their ignorance keep you down. Or try not to anyway.
Reminisce said:And of course, we are considered the ugliest, as always.
exitstageright said:That is interesting. I have never heard of a black man considering a white woman as being a
"trophy",or a "prize."
However,there is one theory about the blonde woman being perceived as the "standard of beauty" in our American society. What I mean by that is,being 58 years old,when I was growing up,the only women that we(most boys) saw on television,covers of magazines, including Playboy,and other advertisements were white women. Ads for bikinis,cars,or anything to do with successful men,had only white women in them.
You take a 16 year old boy,going through puberty,horny as heck,and all of those pictures of women that he sees are white women.Well,what would you expect? If he wants a woman,like the ones he has seen on all of those TV shows and advertisements,including billboards.What KIND of woman do you THINK that he would WANT? He would want those types of women whom he has seen all of his life in the visual media.
Now,I admit that blonde white women are beautiful.However,I have found that ALL races have their fair (no pun intended) share of beautiful women.
As far as white women are concerned,I find dark haired white women to be more attractive than blondes. Of course,for what its worth,that is just my opinion. Yes,I knew, from since I was in Junior High School,that I am not the average person.
And of course, we are considered the ugliest, as always.
Identity Similarity Different, but mundane Exotic Bizarre
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Unattractive Attractive Meh Attractive Unattractive
Um... I'm black??