This is from the link that Catherineanne provided...
Most of the literature that I had read about Ns in the past was about their sense of "grandiosity"....and it would talk about them living a lavish lifestyle etc. I couldn't relate to any of that.....but, everything that you (Catherineanne) are saying, is what's being lived out.
What I'm seeing written so often is, how even people that are aware (and educated) of the Psychology, still miss it.
In my opinion, the DSM IV criteria (listed at the bottom) for Narcissistic Personality Disorder do not really help the average person. Sometimes people have narcissistic traits that overwhelm us, and we feel drained by their behaviour. When an aura of confusion surrounds an encounter with someone grossly narcissistic, it helps us to recognise this red flag, and to take measures to deal with that person. Narcissistic Personality Disorder does not run rampant in our population, but dealing with narcissistic people may be a challenge for many of us across our respective lifetimes.
Even though I have a Master's in psychology, it did not help me identify and deal with people who are severely narcissistic. The cues, the verbal abuse and emotional abuse, and the manipulation, can be subtle and insidious; our sense of self erodes over time as the narcissist slowly undermines us
Most of the literature that I had read about Ns in the past was about their sense of "grandiosity"....and it would talk about them living a lavish lifestyle etc. I couldn't relate to any of that.....but, everything that you (Catherineanne) are saying, is what's being lived out.
What I'm seeing written so often is, how even people that are aware (and educated) of the Psychology, still miss it.
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