The trouble I have with Catholicism (lots of troubles, actually!) is that they have so many contradictions within this supposed one, big, happy family umbrella!
For example, if you read about how to take communion, everywhere it says "standing is the proper mode for receiving communion in the Catholic Church, the correct, respectful posture," and then you get on the website of the Catholic parish up in Fresno that holds a Latin Tridentine Mass each week, and it says, "one beautiful thing about the Latin Mass, is the return to the most pious and holy manner of receiving Holy Communion--kneeling in humility before the Lord."
HUH?
Then you have the Roman Latins. They proudly say the filioque and proclaim it as important doctrine! They stretch reality and tell you that St. Augustine and his contemporaries LOVED the idea of the filioque. Catholicism loved the filioque SO MUCH that they were willing to split with the Holy Orthodox Church over it!!!! That's pretty powerful testimony to how important the filioque is, right? WRONG! The Catholic Church doesn't make the Eastern Catholics say the filioque in the Creed!?!? It's key, essential, powerful doctrine, but a whole segment of their population can behave just like the "schismatic" Orthodox Church that they jettisoned in 1054? Odd? I'd say so!
For the Eastern Catholic, at least many if not most of whom I've dialogued with, the Stations of the Cross are an annoying imposition on them. They don't want to see the Stations in their parish buildings. My question is---WHY NOT? They don't reject the tradition of what happened in the stations, so why are they a nuisance or negative thing?
The theology of the Eucharist in the Orthodox Church is VERY different from the theology of the unleavened wafers in the West. It's not a stylistic preference, it's a concrete theological reasoning that informs the Orthodox approach. The Catholic Church prefers the missing yeast to mimic the Jewish tradition. How can these two live side by side? From the 800's AD to 1054 AD, this was something that annoyed the Orthodox East to no end. They found this empty wafer approach hard to live with. They pinched their nose in the end.
Then there's the married clergy in one, single celibate in the other.
Two views of atonement that are quite different. One legal and sacrificially-oriented, the other medicinal and focused on conquering death.
And when you talk to Eastern Catholics, I've never met one that would take communion in a regular RC parish with the Novus Ordo Mass? If they're one church, one would think it would be a no-brainer?
I don't understand Eastern Catholicism at all or the Roman allowance of it? It's a strange alliance to be sure. I wonder how much of it is political and the happenstance of historical developments with politics and intrigues between nations.
How can one live the strict, rigid, legalistic, formulaic method of the Catechism of the Catholic Church WHILE living within the mindset of a non-legalistic, spiritual father-oriented, very different approach to sin, etc.?
I don't know. I throw up my hands with this stuff. Anhelyna has her reasoning for being E.C. I don't understand it, but I love that lady to death! She's probably better at being Orthodox than I am, and she's not "all in" yet!