ValleyGal
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FWIW, when I was a nurse and worked with the old old, one thing I found is that when a couple comes from such a "traditional" (not saying it's biblical) mindset, when one of them dies and the other has to take over all the responsibility, the surviving spouse is totally lost. Men do not have a clue how to cook, vacuum or scrub a tub, and women do not have any financial resources, let alone the wherewithall to understand how to balance a bank account or pay bills. This would significantly impact the grown children as they would have to then either step in and fill those shoes or teach those skills to their very aged parent.
From what I know about marriage, being intricately involved in each other's "stuff" is of utmost importance, and creates a sense of intimacy, being part of each other's world. So sharing in those kinds of things is good for the marriage and good for being independent in the event of death or illness.
From what I know about marriage, being intricately involved in each other's "stuff" is of utmost importance, and creates a sense of intimacy, being part of each other's world. So sharing in those kinds of things is good for the marriage and good for being independent in the event of death or illness.
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