I Art Laughing
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I can't remember all the details of the movie. Must have been 2009 when I saw it. As I recall, Caleb lost his wife's heart through his inappropriate content use, anger, disrespect, selfishness (his boat was more important than her parents health needs). He had the big "come to know Jesus" experience, realized his dirtbag ways, took off the poop-colored glasses he'd been viewing his wife through, realized he didn't want to lose his marriage, and proceeded to try to win his wife's heart back, and succeeded.
Could you be looking at the movie through some hurtful experience of your own and perhaps projecting too much into it?
BTW, I appreciated reading your apology to dreamer. Good role model!
I think this is my problem here. I have to look at this movie a certain way while the women here explain away every problem I have with the movie. There seems to be very little empathy coming from the gals here. Are you even trying to see the male perspective or are you just defending the female position 24/7. It seems like you are on the defensive no matter what. That leads to me wondering about motives.
From the movie:
Caleb Holt: Dr Keller?
Gavin Keller: Yes?
Caleb Holt: Caleb Holt. I need a word with you, please.
Gavin Keller: Look, it's really not a good time; I'm just about to make my rounds.
Caleb Holt: I think you need to make time. This is concerning Catherine, my wife.
Gavin Keller: All right. What can I do for you?
Caleb Holt: I know what you're doing. And I have no intention of stepping aside as you try to steal my wife's heart. I've made some mistakes, but I still love her. So just know that I am going after her too. And since I'm married to her, I'd say I've got a head start. By the way,
[closes his hand to form a fist]
Caleb Holt: thanks for helping me with my hand; my ring finger's feeling a whole lot better.
I don't care how you slice it, that is Caleb competing for the affections of his wife's heart. He is competing with the adulterous affair!
My question was this:
I would like to know what the women here did think about the scene between Caleb and the Doctor where it seemed that Caleb was competing with the object of his wife's adultery? Should a spouse compete with the adulterous thoughts, actions or relationships? Is this something YOU would do? Can you envision God having you compete in this manner? I would appreciate any insights.
So far, I haven't seen anything but dancing, dodging, and I dunno what your talking about? Really ladies? Would you give yourself even more to compete with your husbands adulterous thoughts and actions? Would you go to the other woman and suggest that you were going to "win your man" and that you had a head start? I am thinking that your lack of an answer, IS AN ANSWER.
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