Does anyone know any tips or techniques in ignoring someone you can't avoid? The person I'm attempting to ignore is my grandma. She drives me nuts. She is currently living with us, even though she has other places she could be staying. She has literally gone out of her way to be here. On top of that, she knows I don't want her here. If she doesn't, she is being dilusional, because we don't get along. Its also come up in a conversation, so she is doing this in spite of what she knows, I don't want her to be here.
So, basically she has burnt her bridge down, because she has done this 10 month stay thing 5 times or more, and knows I don't want her here.
But, I may not be able to control this, because my family or her don't care, I will at least find a way to ignore her presence.
She is one of those who is always seeking attention and nervous all the time. Those are two things that drive me nuts, at least in her. For instance, just a few minutes ago, I was eating on my own on the back porch, and low and be hold, grandma pops out of her room and hangs in the kitchen, which is by the porch, and plays with the dishes. I made sure I was going to wait for her to leave, knowing what she was doing. She finally leaves after 20 minutes of doing nothing. I go in, and 15 seconds later, she coming down the stairs to come into the kitchen. SHE WAS IN THERE FOR 20 MINUTES, she couldn't have had anything to do. Next thing I find her doing, is getting in my way, saying she is wiping down ants that were going for peanut butter or something on the counter. They wern't there, I know it. Just something to get attention with. Why would she have not wiped down the ants in the 20 minutes before? I know the answer, they were phantom ants that never existed in the first place.
So, in short, how do you ignore someone who is nervous all the time and looking for attention all the time? I need something more than "just ignore her". Just her presence annoys me. But, unfortunetly, God didn't answer my prayer to prevent her from coming back down her after she left a month ago, so I need a way to ignore her.
There has to be some good technique that would do it. Anyone experienced in pshycology know anything? I know stress and being annoyed isn't good for ones health, if it is done for a prolonged time. Anyone know anything?
So, basically she has burnt her bridge down, because she has done this 10 month stay thing 5 times or more, and knows I don't want her here.
But, I may not be able to control this, because my family or her don't care, I will at least find a way to ignore her presence.
She is one of those who is always seeking attention and nervous all the time. Those are two things that drive me nuts, at least in her. For instance, just a few minutes ago, I was eating on my own on the back porch, and low and be hold, grandma pops out of her room and hangs in the kitchen, which is by the porch, and plays with the dishes. I made sure I was going to wait for her to leave, knowing what she was doing. She finally leaves after 20 minutes of doing nothing. I go in, and 15 seconds later, she coming down the stairs to come into the kitchen. SHE WAS IN THERE FOR 20 MINUTES, she couldn't have had anything to do. Next thing I find her doing, is getting in my way, saying she is wiping down ants that were going for peanut butter or something on the counter. They wern't there, I know it. Just something to get attention with. Why would she have not wiped down the ants in the 20 minutes before? I know the answer, they were phantom ants that never existed in the first place.
So, in short, how do you ignore someone who is nervous all the time and looking for attention all the time? I need something more than "just ignore her". Just her presence annoys me. But, unfortunetly, God didn't answer my prayer to prevent her from coming back down her after she left a month ago, so I need a way to ignore her.
There has to be some good technique that would do it. Anyone experienced in pshycology know anything? I know stress and being annoyed isn't good for ones health, if it is done for a prolonged time. Anyone know anything?