- Jul 13, 2010
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I have a good friend whom I have known for four or so years. He is younger than me. He is 20 years old. He is not a believer and has had the usual teenager problems including sex addiction, alcohol useage, weed useage, and a problem with being truthful.
When he is around me and my friends he acts like a decent guy. Yet on the internet, and with his other friends, he displays example after example of pure filth. You name it, it has happened....
He knows my position on all of this as I have told him many times. Again, because of my stance on these problems, he attempts to act like a decent guy when he is around me.
My main concern is that another friend of mine (who is the youngest in the group - 17 years old) has had some similar problems in the past with sex. Maybe an isolated incident with weed and alcohol as well. Nothing extreme. This youngest friend is making a very very sincere effort to stay on the right track. He goes to church and takes a real interest in the surmon and reading the Bible. There have been a few instances of the 20 year old giving the youngest friend some bad advice in terms of sex and alcohol in the past. Thankfully the damage done was minor.
As a Christian, what should I be doing? I hate to take a chance that the 20 year old will tear the 17 year old down with bad influence and advice. As a Christian are we supposed to maintain relationships with non believers, or should I put some distance on the 20 year old?
When he is around me and my friends he acts like a decent guy. Yet on the internet, and with his other friends, he displays example after example of pure filth. You name it, it has happened....
He knows my position on all of this as I have told him many times. Again, because of my stance on these problems, he attempts to act like a decent guy when he is around me.
My main concern is that another friend of mine (who is the youngest in the group - 17 years old) has had some similar problems in the past with sex. Maybe an isolated incident with weed and alcohol as well. Nothing extreme. This youngest friend is making a very very sincere effort to stay on the right track. He goes to church and takes a real interest in the surmon and reading the Bible. There have been a few instances of the 20 year old giving the youngest friend some bad advice in terms of sex and alcohol in the past. Thankfully the damage done was minor.
As a Christian, what should I be doing? I hate to take a chance that the 20 year old will tear the 17 year old down with bad influence and advice. As a Christian are we supposed to maintain relationships with non believers, or should I put some distance on the 20 year old?