So what are your views on it. Its REALLY hard for me to talk to couples about this issue because often I find if someone was abused as a child they think spanking is abuse. Even if they were just spanked, they tend to say their parents used a belt or something more painful, which I do get can be bad. So they get annoyed when I bring up spanking. To me spanking is something that should be saved for those REALLY rare moments when its called for. Like if you are spanking your child daily, I do think it borders on abuse. Where as if you only have to spank them a few times a year, I think its ok.
I was spanked and turned out good. And likewise in very bad situation where something has to be done I will spank my child. Sadly though if your american its now against the law to spank. Which I think is why the youth today are even worse then when I grew up. Sure, all generations have youth that do bad things. But I never remember kids hitting their parents, screaming obscenities at them, throwing and destroying their stuff. Maybe a few did, but not as many as today.
Obviously there are other things that add to it like the media they see today. But overall I am for spanking as a last resort. What about you? Also do you believe some think its bad because of their childhood? I'd think if your on this forum then you are a christian so obviously it spanking wasn't to bad or you'd turn from your ways (just an assumption of course).
I was spanked and turned out good. And likewise in very bad situation where something has to be done I will spank my child. Sadly though if your american its now against the law to spank. Which I think is why the youth today are even worse then when I grew up. Sure, all generations have youth that do bad things. But I never remember kids hitting their parents, screaming obscenities at them, throwing and destroying their stuff. Maybe a few did, but not as many as today.
Obviously there are other things that add to it like the media they see today. But overall I am for spanking as a last resort. What about you? Also do you believe some think its bad because of their childhood? I'd think if your on this forum then you are a christian so obviously it spanking wasn't to bad or you'd turn from your ways (just an assumption of course).