Ok, I have a topic on my heart right now and it is just bugging me so much. This topic is actually from another thread in another part of this forum, and some people may know which one I am referring to. I'm also not trying to point fingers or put anyone in the spotlight. I'm also not trying to make anyone feel bad, as in the poster of this topic, as well as the other person involved. I just have to write about this.
Anyway, the topic that is bothering me, is remarriage after divorce.
I'm well aware that the only permissable reason for divorce is adultery. That way if you divorce because of that, you will not be sinning.
I'm also aware that divorcing due to any other reason is considered a sin, which would make it wrong for you to remarry IF YOU NEVER REPENTED AND ASKED FOR FORGIVENESS of the divorce. (That's what my stance is).
But, once you do repent of the sin and are forgiven by the Lord, it is my understanding that, after you've been washed by the blood of Christ, and are able to start over again with a clean slate, that you are allowed to remarry again, without it being a sin. Cuz obviously, God has forgiven you and you've started over.
The thing that is bothering me so much is this: a young girl has condemned herself to a life without marriage because she had gotten a divorce, and now believes that remarriage would be a sin. I guess this girl has searched and prayed for the answer and has come to that conclusion.
With all due respect to her, I just don't understand that. If God truly forgives and forgets our sin (as he wants his people to do for others) then why would this girl then be unable to start fresh again, why would she be condemned?
I'm just being totally misunderstood by the people in that thread, I'm being called disrespectful and "condemning" as someone has said. But I'm not. I'm just so bothered by the fact this girl seems to have 'condemned herself', when it seems to me, God would never do such a thing to her.
What does everyone else think? I'm at a loss here. The people from that thread won't take what I say seriously, and I think my opinion is deeply rooted in the word of God: That God forgives us, no matter what the sin, and we are able to start fresh again. Divorce is not the "unforgiveable sin". No sin is unforgiveable, if it was we'd all be in deep trouble.
Please help!
Anyway, the topic that is bothering me, is remarriage after divorce.
I'm well aware that the only permissable reason for divorce is adultery. That way if you divorce because of that, you will not be sinning.
I'm also aware that divorcing due to any other reason is considered a sin, which would make it wrong for you to remarry IF YOU NEVER REPENTED AND ASKED FOR FORGIVENESS of the divorce. (That's what my stance is).
But, once you do repent of the sin and are forgiven by the Lord, it is my understanding that, after you've been washed by the blood of Christ, and are able to start over again with a clean slate, that you are allowed to remarry again, without it being a sin. Cuz obviously, God has forgiven you and you've started over.
The thing that is bothering me so much is this: a young girl has condemned herself to a life without marriage because she had gotten a divorce, and now believes that remarriage would be a sin. I guess this girl has searched and prayed for the answer and has come to that conclusion.
With all due respect to her, I just don't understand that. If God truly forgives and forgets our sin (as he wants his people to do for others) then why would this girl then be unable to start fresh again, why would she be condemned?
I'm just being totally misunderstood by the people in that thread, I'm being called disrespectful and "condemning" as someone has said. But I'm not. I'm just so bothered by the fact this girl seems to have 'condemned herself', when it seems to me, God would never do such a thing to her.
What does everyone else think? I'm at a loss here. The people from that thread won't take what I say seriously, and I think my opinion is deeply rooted in the word of God: That God forgives us, no matter what the sin, and we are able to start fresh again. Divorce is not the "unforgiveable sin". No sin is unforgiveable, if it was we'd all be in deep trouble.
Please help!