Ok, I get it now. I thought that there was an implication that your job or some specific lifestyle choice gave you "overexposure to more attractive women" (using your own words). I figured you might be something like a bartender or nightclub bouncer - which would be more difficult for someone who wants to avoid flirting.
I am in tourism and leisure, so often accompany groups across the world, meet many new people, provide for their entertainment. Therefore I often also attend nightclubs and organize parties of all types, from top venues to specialized ones. I have also done some DJ work in my part-time so many of my acquaintances are from the entertainment scene.
Since choreographic dance has been my passion since childhood (but I have stopped since years) I also dream to spend some time again in that field. But I stayed away from that because there is plenty of women there, there's lot of physical contact and body interaction, and... you know what I mean.
I would really really really like to dance again, but am have abstained because of potential temptation. I feel that this abstaining has made me feel more connected to the woman I love.
I'll repeat what I said earlier: make friends and socialize with women who don't tempt you, and avoid the women that do tempt you. It's a straightforward equation that many Christian guys do for a lifetime. If you have a typical job and lifestyle, most of the women you meet probably won't be sexually attractive. Cutting out "any interaction with other women" is overcompensating. Just check your conscience. If you feel lustful thoughts... flee from the temptation, as Paul tell us in 1 Corinthians 6:18. If not, go ahead and socialize and have friendships that remain at a comfortable distance.
As I said before, on the one hand I consider this a "balanced solution" to my problem, but I feel it contraddicts with the general idea of loving others. What I fear is that if I chose to live with selective friendship,
I will discriminate. And somehow discrimination doesn't fit my idea of loving everyone (agape way) and treating everyone the same way.
That's why I am skeptic about the balanced solution and prefer an extreme either one or the other.