Dear Kogenta, I do not believe that anyone should try to controll another Human being, as you wrote it, it seems to be a difficult situation you have gotten into through showing kindness to another, I feel you should get help with this situaion from some authority, as they threatened your life, I do not understand completely
what you are going through, but your kindness should to others, should be respected
I wish you well and may our Lord Bless you, and keep you safe, Elshevia.