NothingIsImpossible
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I never understood not wanting sex because your spouse weighs alot. I mean the body parts are still there. Its not like anything changes really (well except for the chest area). Still though.... he needs to talk to a counselor about it. A christian one, preferably a pastor. You shouldn't feel this rejected. These are the kind of issues that cause divorces and even cheating. Not that its a excuse to do either of course.
You should remind him that our bodies will change over time so even if you were "what he wanted" weight wise, it wouldn't matter because in 10 years your bodies will change. By the time your 80 things will be very different. He needs to accept that. Marriage/sex isn't about the outside.
You should remind him that our bodies will change over time so even if you were "what he wanted" weight wise, it wouldn't matter because in 10 years your bodies will change. By the time your 80 things will be very different. He needs to accept that. Marriage/sex isn't about the outside.
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