I'd rather this thread not get closed down due to gay bashing though. However, it is confirming my suspicions that this forum seems to be more like Conservative Christianity than Judaism.
Concerning your stance on the subject of same sex attraction, I don't personally hold to thinking that its in any way appropriate to tolerate---even though I also don't go with what many Fundamentalists do in being what's known as "homophobic"/never allowing those struggling with such to be in churches....for they're still people, some of which are the nicest/kindest people I've met---and they all need Jesus. Being one who has dealt with that struggle myself as well as others, I don't trip when one says they're having battles with same-sex attraction----nor do I go the route of trying to act as if its the ULTIMATE sin against the Lord to indulge in it. For all sin is sin---and sins of racism or laziness and adultery are JUST as serious as those of homosexuality, IMHO.
One struggling with Homosexuality is not worse than one struggling with Coveting. For these are all sins and we do not need to find ways to justify them. Rather, we simply need to continue seeking God in repentance. I have had homosexual friends, and I have known homosexual believers who struggle to fight it. I do not look down upon them, because although I do not struggle with Homosexuality currently, I struggle with other areas in my life, as we all do, but in those areas where I struggle, I am wrong, I am not going to twist scripture so that I can feel good about my wrongs.
Many times I'm reminded of the phrase "love the sinner, hate the sin" whenever it comes to the subject of homsexuality. And to be clear, while the basic attitude of people who believe the Bible should be to love sinners while hating their sins, believers must accept the Bible's judgments on what is and what is not sin. Moreover, denouncing the sin is an apspect of loving the sinner since this is what enables him to repent, be forgiven and change. All of this can be done compassionately and effectively. The real tragedy is that few Christian Churches try to minister to those struggling with same-sex attraction/relationships. Those involved in homosexuality who have put their trust in Yeshua the Messiah, acknowedged their homosexual behavior and fantasies (Matthew 5:28) as sin, and become apart of a community of believers in the Messiah who love, for care and pray for them, have found the Holy Spirt gives them strength to flee their temptations, turn from their sin and live godly lives, either in heterosexuaL marriage or in celibacy---as Jesus noted in Matthew 19. Like former substance-abusers, many recognzie that they are weak in the area of their former sin but rely on God day by day to keep them free of it (II Corinthians 12:9-10).
I feel I must qualify that as one having dealt with homosexuality in my own life/doing ministry with others who've battled the same, it's always interesting how often I have to qualify things when I say I'm against it.
For as happened in my class once when someone asked if I was for it and I sharply disagreed, the point came up about doing so meaning one's scarred of homosexuals----though my response is that I'm actually scarred
for them after seeing the consistent and full results that come from it. And to be clear, in what I'm saying, my being against homosexuality is not an indicator that those involved in same-sex relationships should not have legal rights to be married---just as all others are given rights to do so...
As my brother Lionel said on the issue once in an article he made entitled
Marriage, Gay Marriage, Federal Law and the Church « A Better Covenant
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My opening statement is here: I will take Gay Marriage serious when we decide to take Straight Marriage seriously. If I am going to vote for a bill to be passed that defines marriage as between one man and woman then that bill most also contain and divorce and remarriage is only allowed for martial (proven) unfaithfulness. How about that for a Federal Marriage Amendment?
It is funny that we Christians always want to control what is right and wrong in our culture while simultaneously disobeying direct commands from Jesus himself. So we want to tell our Gay and Lesbian communities that it is wrong for them to marry one another when they are in love (I am not advocating this) but in turn we divorce whenever we feel we are out of love. So we are telling our Gay and Lesbian communities do as I say and not as I do and I think the last time I checked that is defined as hypocrisy! Who are we to pass judgment when we being the people of God dont obey! Man, that makes me sick.
Some have often said that one can still feel that same-sex relationships are appropiate and still be called brothers when it comes to fellowshipping with others thinking the Torah says otherwise...in light of the claim that fellowship isn't based on full agreement on every moral, political, theological issue.
However, In all meekness/humility, some things to consider are that Unity must be based on the things within God's Word that're also already absolute....hence, why it can be a danger when all aspects of the Word are approached from a conversation standpoint---as some things are not clear and yet others are MORE than clear/beyond the realm of conversation in light of their effects on man (i.e. murder, sexual immorality, lust, racism, etc). It also goes into the issue of Polemics/Apolegetics---as there's indeed the scriptures we cannot escape when it comes to false teachings/doctrines and the standards for fellowship.
Genesis 1:26
Then God said, "Let us make humankind in our image, in the likeness of ourselves; and let them rule over the fish in the sea, the birds in the air, the animals, and over all the earth, and over every crawling creature that crawls on the earth." 27 So God created humankind in his own image; in the image of God he created him: male and female he created them. 28 God blessed them: God said to them, "Be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea, the birds in the air and every living creature that crawls on the earth."
God created us with the ability to carry out his instruction. We cannot obey God by multiplying if we do not copulate. We cannot multiply through same sex relations of any kind. One scripture that also comes to mind...
Genesis 38:9
However, Onan knew that the child would not count as his; so whenever he had intercourse with his brother's wife, he spilled the sperm on the ground, so as not to give his brother offspring. 10 What he did was evil from ADONAI's perspective, so he killed him too.
It's speculation in a sense to try and guess the mind of God fully in this matter..but IMHO, the act of spilling (wasting) the seed on the ground was certainly part of the issue as to why the Lord thought it wicked----. That said, one cannot ignore the fact that same sex intercourse has as it's result something very similar in that the seed is wasted.
As it conerns the issue of Onan, God was clear in the Law why Onan was wrong. For in Genesis 38:8-10, the law about marrying widows in the family was something in view---also expressed in Deuteronomy 25:5-10. Its purpose was to ensure that a childless widow would have a son who would recieve her late husband's inheritance and who, in turn, would care for her. Because Judah's son (Tamar's husband) had no children, there was no family line through which the inheritance and the blessing of the covenant could continue. God killed Onan because he refused to fulfill his obligation to his brother and to Tamar.....enjoying the pleasures/"kick" of a sexual relationship while not wanting the function behind it---and he probably was killed for greed as well since the children would not be his and thus he could get no benefits from having children.
Its indeed an issue of wasted seed.....and more of an illustration of how seriously God takes procreation....
"Same-Sex" christians may try to make the case that it's no different than a barren women but I believe that the Bible is clear that a woman's womb can be opened (made operational) but a man....
The generation that believes that they can be a follower of Messiah and a homosexual has the dispensational (and other demonic, IMHO) doctrine to thank. They understand that you can't say on the one hand it's okay to eat whatever you like, reject Shabbat and then try to tell them that you have to keep other aspects of the "law". They're actually living out the doctrine that has been fed them. Now we see the result of feeding the beast
People often say things like "Well, Jesus never mentioned anything about same-sex relationships being wrong so it must be good...and Paul doesn't need to be heard on the issue!!!!" (As is often said by those advocating "Gay Christian Theology")---and yet they skip over what Jesus already said about marriage and supporting what was already stated in the Mosaic Law (which spoke on homosexuality a forbidden, including Leviticus 18:22 and Leviticus 20:13 ).
People forget that the gospels are not comprehensive and some of the Bible's most important teachings the explanation of spiritual gifts, the Priesthood of Christ, the doctrine of man's old and new nature appear in other books of the Bible....and many ignore how the gospels do not claim to be a complete account of Jesus' life or teachings.
For sections of Jesus' life are not discussed in the gospels and we cannot be certain that Jesus never spoke about homosexual behavior...........and given that Scripture teaches that Jesus kept all the Law and affirmed all that the Law and the Prophets taught (Matt. 5:17-19), undoubtedly, this would have included the affirmation of committed, monogamous male-female marriage and an unwavering condemnation of homosexual behavior.
Given that all first century orthodox Jews would have held to this standard, the question of affirming homosexuality would not have been open to discussion in Jesus' day.
For those trying to focus solely on discrediting Paul when he forcefully spoke out on the issue ( Romans 1:26-27; 1 Corinthians 6:9-10; 1 Timothy 1:9-10 ) and saying "We just can't be sure what scriptures can be trusted, except what Jesus stood for", they ignore the larger issue of where Jesus already referred to OT Scripture when he referred to heterosexuality as a standard. For He specifically described God's created intent for human sexuality:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate" (Matt. 19: 1-8; Mk. 10:6-9).
That's but one example....