TheLastGeek
Lovable Mess
This is why you're awesome, Miles. <3Likewise. I prefer American women and appreciated the humor. The thought of leaving the country to find a wife isn't appealing to me at all. I mean, it's not like Western women are copies of each other. Western society contains the same range of personality and temperament found in other societies. It's just that we have greater freedom of media etc. which showcases personalities who are into that sort of thing. Most westerners aren't Hollywood stereotypes.
Why would I look elsewhere and risk that she's just using me for a green card or as a way to escape her home country. No thanks! That's a hard pass for me. Think about it. Why would a supposedly traditional woman from a foreign country want to pair up with an American man? Surely not because she is traditionally-minded or thinks of him as traditional. If that's what she was looking for she would prefer local men.
Although I'm not opposed to international marriages, I think the relationship should happen first. The international part would be a logistical problem to solve rather than the reason for the relationship itself.
Also, whose traditions are we talking about? I'm not interested in women who are illiterate or want to be treated like property, for instance. That's backward. Not necessarily traditional. Likewise, would she prefer that I spend my days hunting mammoth and spit-painting outlines of my hands on cave walls? Although some of those cave paintings are pretty cool, I hope not. People are continually creating and shaping future traditions. Even in supposedly traditional cultures, history shows us that those traditions are far from stagnant.
It seems to me that the "passport bros" trope is more of an internet thing than a widespread trend in real life.
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