- Jul 27, 2012
- 19
- 1
- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Married
Hi guys.
I've always thought of myself a Christian(I know this specific forum is for non-christians, but I've seen some great advice come from this side of the site). I was baptized about 5 years ago, attended church/young adult group quite regularly. Read my bible, prayed, tried to have a relationship with the Lord, tried to do the right things. But so many times, I feel stuck. I feel lost. I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. So often I find myself even wondering why I need religion, doubting what's real, what's not, what to believe, what to not. To me, religion and believing is hard.
No matter how hard I try to be a "good" christian, I always feel as though there is something that keeps me from getting too close, like there's a wall I can't quite break past. I've read the christian self-help books, I do hours of research, but I just don't feel like I'm able to get close to the Lord or have a relationship with him.
I think some of the problem is that I've always felt pressured from the churches I've gone to. "Why weren't you here last week?", "Why won't you go on a mission trip?", "Why don't you come to any services besides Sunday?". I've even encountered a person who told me I had a sinus infection because I wasn't fully saved.
I just have so many questions about things and half of the time I don't even know what they are. What do I do? I want to believe, and I want to have a relationship with Him. I just don't know how.
I've always thought of myself a Christian(I know this specific forum is for non-christians, but I've seen some great advice come from this side of the site). I was baptized about 5 years ago, attended church/young adult group quite regularly. Read my bible, prayed, tried to have a relationship with the Lord, tried to do the right things. But so many times, I feel stuck. I feel lost. I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. So often I find myself even wondering why I need religion, doubting what's real, what's not, what to believe, what to not. To me, religion and believing is hard.
No matter how hard I try to be a "good" christian, I always feel as though there is something that keeps me from getting too close, like there's a wall I can't quite break past. I've read the christian self-help books, I do hours of research, but I just don't feel like I'm able to get close to the Lord or have a relationship with him.
I think some of the problem is that I've always felt pressured from the churches I've gone to. "Why weren't you here last week?", "Why won't you go on a mission trip?", "Why don't you come to any services besides Sunday?". I've even encountered a person who told me I had a sinus infection because I wasn't fully saved.
I just have so many questions about things and half of the time I don't even know what they are. What do I do? I want to believe, and I want to have a relationship with Him. I just don't know how.