I deserve everything that was stated to me out of the information I gave. I was trying to give encouragement to watch our actions (because of what "outsiders" or atheists see, such as my old friend stating I am the only Christian he met that is "kind" and etc) and I was also mentioning to be careful, because you do not know if people just claim the title.
There was more to this man than I posted about, but I didn't want to get in the "poor me" thing. But from the information I gave...I truly deserve to be put in my place and I love you all for it. I am looking to always improve myself and I do not have (nor did I ever have) Christian friends. So, it is good that you show me love by letting me know when I am wrong.
I should probably make one thing clear though. I do not think making out is wrong (some of you might), but it was forced on me (and that I find unloving). He did not beat me, he did not try to rape me...but he would not let go of me and kept kissing me wildly. Then he also said some things about other people towards the end of the date (before he did this) that were cruel and I felt very wrong. Also, he called me when I left (he said he started drinking whisky when I left) with the most off the wall and crazy comments. Cruel things, but then he apologized the next day..blamed it on the whisky and wanted to go out again, because I am so "hot".
He did NOT hurt me and I do not want anyone to think that. But after he called me when I was leaving in my car and said the things he did...that was when I knew for sure I did the right thing by leaving.
So, I was not mad that he wanted to make out...(but I didn't want to make out with someone I didn't know) and I sure hated it being forced. His actions were violent towards unanimated objects, but he never once laid a hand on me in a way that would cause pain.
I am leaving a little out, because I will NOT play victim here. I just want to give you enough to where you can fairly "judge" me. If you still feel I did the wrong thing or am a person judging someone I do not know...please tell me. I need to know so that I can change.
This man may have really believed he was Christian, but everything the Bible teaches...he did not follow, because they are "guide lines"...he told me this when he was trying to make out with me. But again, even though his actions were violent he never hit me or tried to rape me.
There was more to this man than I posted about, but I didn't want to get in the "poor me" thing. But from the information I gave...I truly deserve to be put in my place and I love you all for it. I am looking to always improve myself and I do not have (nor did I ever have) Christian friends. So, it is good that you show me love by letting me know when I am wrong.
I should probably make one thing clear though. I do not think making out is wrong (some of you might), but it was forced on me (and that I find unloving). He did not beat me, he did not try to rape me...but he would not let go of me and kept kissing me wildly. Then he also said some things about other people towards the end of the date (before he did this) that were cruel and I felt very wrong. Also, he called me when I left (he said he started drinking whisky when I left) with the most off the wall and crazy comments. Cruel things, but then he apologized the next day..blamed it on the whisky and wanted to go out again, because I am so "hot".
He did NOT hurt me and I do not want anyone to think that. But after he called me when I was leaving in my car and said the things he did...that was when I knew for sure I did the right thing by leaving.
So, I was not mad that he wanted to make out...(but I didn't want to make out with someone I didn't know) and I sure hated it being forced. His actions were violent towards unanimated objects, but he never once laid a hand on me in a way that would cause pain.
I am leaving a little out, because I will NOT play victim here. I just want to give you enough to where you can fairly "judge" me. If you still feel I did the wrong thing or am a person judging someone I do not know...please tell me. I need to know so that I can change.
This man may have really believed he was Christian, but everything the Bible teaches...he did not follow, because they are "guide lines"...he told me this when he was trying to make out with me. But again, even though his actions were violent he never hit me or tried to rape me.
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