We had children late, and I think we are some of the last group that was considered boomers. I wasn't suppose to have children due to female issues, and God blessed me with two naturally anyway! Woo HOO!
I will say - compared to my parent's generation - I tried to stay as open minded as I could. My parents were overall pretty cool with conversations other parents wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole, and other conversations? They clearly were not comfortable with.
Some of the circumstances - and questions - they come to me with? I can picture my parents freaking out about, but I know the conversation NEEDS to be done. I try to show no reaction, but my stomach is turning.
Due to their age (young adults at this point) I try very hard to speak to them calmly and frankly. The judgmental tone is pretty much muted. Thankfully, I trust my kids to do the right thing. They don't go off partying, being obnoxious, etc.
If you are open minded enough they also can teach you new ways of looking at things, and of course like all humans in some areas....lol not so much! Like my parents before me I try to present both sides, and remind them at times you just need to accept that people are NOT always going to think the same way about everything. Its not time to freak out, attack, and call names that you see today. Its time to figure out a way of working with it the best you can. I'm speaking generally here...not something illegal.
As they have got older? Now we have their friends that don't have such a great relationship come to us for advice. They get the same approach. We tend not to just tell them WHAT to do, but WHY it is necessary. At times you need to find ways of explaining things differently, because you need the light to come on! Then I have to do my best to accept them as they are, and learn to let go...now that they are adults. Learn to cringe, but allow them to be what they grew to be. Overall? They are awesome individuals. Not entitled, Good work ethic, and respectful.
So far? The only thing I can remember really freaking about? My 21 yr old came home with a cat tattoo on her ankle. She knew the freak out was coming, and was trying to calm me down. (Sigh) If that is the worse she does? I can live with it. What the heck is it with this kids and tattoo's? Yuck!