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[quote[FONT="]][/FONT]EZ are you telling me that Gen X and Millenniums are not selfish?[FONT="][/quote]
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[FONT="]To be honest - from my perspective it's still a little [FONT="]too early to tell. I think that my group ([FONT="]t[FONT="]he GenX[FONT="]'ers) has a degree of selfishness to [FONT="]us...hence the[FONT="] statistic you were citing [FONT="]showing the breakdown of [FONT="]tea partiers. I know a good number of kids I went to s[FONT="]chool with that are in that camp politically.
[FONT="]As for the [FONT="]millennials - that really remains to be seen[FONT="]. From what I know of them - they [FONT="]value [FONT="]the "group" in ways t[FONT="]hat the boomers (generally) and my group (generally) don't. [FONT="]So it'll be interesting to see how that parlays i[FONT="]nto the future when it comes to things like social[FONT="] investment. My understand[FONT="]ing, however, is that they are in favor of[FONT="] it (generally).
[FONT="]I think the reason why the boomers (generally...lo[FONT="]l [FONT="]I'll start using that now) get under my skin about their selfish[FONT="]ness in a way that [FONT="]my group doesn't is that in my view it comes off as [FONT="]either[FONT="] unabashedly a[FONT="]nd unashamedly crass [FONT="]or just plain unaware[FONT="] of[FONT="] things. I mean - they W[FONT="]ERE the beneficiaries of the investments of the previous generation. [FONT="]For all intents and purposes - their ride was paid for in full.
[FONT="]So, the self aggrandizement about how they [FONT="]"pulled themselves up by their own bootstraps" just gets under my skin when I h[FONT="]ear how they talk about the millenn[FONT="]ials (generally)[FONT="]. It's actually listeni[FONT="]ng t[FONT="]o them talk about this newer group that has fired me up[FONT="] about them.
[FONT="]Compared to the millen[FONT="]nials - in a lot of respects - I had it easy, too. Hec[FONT="]k - my folks paid fo[FONT="]r my college in full. I carr[FONT="]ied no [FONT="]debt coming out of college[FONT="] - and immediately after graduating was able to get a good paying job where I c[FONT="]ould buy a home and begin be[FONT="]ing a productive member of society.
[FONT="]But I don't [FONT="]suffer from delusions of how I [FONT="]was an isla[FONT="]nd - making it on my own. I completely recognize the he[FONT="]lp I was given - and as a result I have no problems with the [FONT="]idea of investment in the better[FONT="]ment of others. I received, and it ma[FONT="]de a great [FONT="]difference. Others should receive as well. To me it only seems fair - and like a good investment going forward.
[FONT="]To your que[FONT="]stion though - I think within my group such a shared perspective is kinda [FONT="]a 50[FONT="]/50 proposition. A lot [FONT="]of those in my group didn't get the same types of allowances I was given. The 80's rolled around, the Boomers started becoming more of a factor, [FONT="]people sta[FONT="]rted getting scared of the idea that Government might ask "How can we help[FONT="]?", an[FONT="]d community investment began to sink. So - some in my group got shafte[FONT="]d - and I guess they think "If I got shafted, why shouldn't eve[FONT="]ryone else?"
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[/FONT]I cannot argue against that as many of the boomers did just that. Of course not all boomers but enough to put a bitter taste in your mouth. We Christian boomers that lived the hedonistic lifestyle were a disgrace to our God. EZ do you think that the boomers were more immoral than the Gen X and Millenniums?[/FONT]
Ehhh, not really. I just used that as something to illustrate the grand level of debauchery they were involved in as part of a whole...lol
I think my generation got kinda scared about sex with the whole AIDS thing. Heck - I've said here before that I think my entire life - even with a previous marriage - prior to trying to have kids with my wife I've had sex w/o a condom maybe 5 times. I remember my mom pulling me aside in the 7th grade and telling me about this "new aids thing that will kill you"...lol
So, if there was any more chastity in my group than in the millennials or the boomers - it's only by circumstance - so I don't think any bonus points can be given there.
Can't really speak about the millennials, although anecdotally I've heard they're pretty promiscuous...lol "Hook up culture"
[FONT="]EZ, you are right, some of us boomers were selfish and abandoned the altruistic actions of the silent generation. However, as we boomers got older, some of us are lucky enough to have good Christian parents from the Silent Generation. I am one of those lucky ones. Even though I am embarrassed about my life in the 1960s, because of the great influence of the greatest generation (my parents)[[FONT="]/quote]
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I've always kinda seen myself as a mix of boomer and Gen-Xer - because my folks were part of the Silent-Generation. So in a sense, I had the same type of home life that the boomers did.. My dad was born in 1925, raised during the depression, was a WWII vet, etc...and was pretty much your stereotypical "Silent-Generation/Greatest Generation" guy. So, I can see a lot of their perspectives, actually.
Probably plays into things like why chastity is not my litmus test of morality, I think sexual issues are far overplayed in terms of importance, etc. I also had a ton of things given to me on a silver platter by virtue of how my parents were.
I also witnessed, like I said before, how a lot of people in my group didn't get those types of things due to shifting priorities culturally. So observing that had an effect on me as well.
It could be that I'm painting the boomers with too broad of a brush - but like I said earlier - a lot of them have really gotten on my nerves lately with stuff I've been hearing them say about the millennial group. I have a lot of respect so far for that young group - and given the choice of growing old and ending up under their watch - or given the choice of growing old under the boomer's watch - I'd far prefer the millennials.