Hello All,
I need advice regarding my mother-in-law. First, some back story, my husband and I are a somewhat young married couple (both 25) and have been married for a year. My mother-in-law is always a little difficult, but I kind of just deal because I love my husband and that's just the type of person I am. She moved out of state last year and doesn't have very much to do with us anymore. The other day I went to get our mail and we had mail addressed to her in our mailbox! I was a bit confused and a bit annoyed as I had no prior knowledge of her having permission to use our address. I wrote return to sender on the mail and popped it back in. I should add, without going into a whole lot of detail, this mail was in regards to child support payments that are long past due and at the time I was also annoyed because I wasn't sure if the state was going to think she was at our address and we were going to get dragged into it... Anyways, today I receive a text from her asking me to forward this mail to her and that she has it going to our address because "it was the only one she had on her at the time." Again, I'm not the confrontational part so part of me is just like okay I guess I'll forward it to her next time. The other part of me is really annoyed that she used our address without asking and for a legal matter!!! I think she's using it so the state doesn't know she's moved and I really don't care to be in the middle of it.
Do I have a right to be annoyed or am I being ridiculous? I'm worried I'm being a little over the top and it's no big deal, I guess it's just a culmination of past events and now this. Is the right thing to do to just forward her the mail we get? I don't know why I'm making a big deal out of this, but it really bothers me! My husband says we'll just forward it, but I hate to be in the middle of this as I said before.
I need advice regarding my mother-in-law. First, some back story, my husband and I are a somewhat young married couple (both 25) and have been married for a year. My mother-in-law is always a little difficult, but I kind of just deal because I love my husband and that's just the type of person I am. She moved out of state last year and doesn't have very much to do with us anymore. The other day I went to get our mail and we had mail addressed to her in our mailbox! I was a bit confused and a bit annoyed as I had no prior knowledge of her having permission to use our address. I wrote return to sender on the mail and popped it back in. I should add, without going into a whole lot of detail, this mail was in regards to child support payments that are long past due and at the time I was also annoyed because I wasn't sure if the state was going to think she was at our address and we were going to get dragged into it... Anyways, today I receive a text from her asking me to forward this mail to her and that she has it going to our address because "it was the only one she had on her at the time." Again, I'm not the confrontational part so part of me is just like okay I guess I'll forward it to her next time. The other part of me is really annoyed that she used our address without asking and for a legal matter!!! I think she's using it so the state doesn't know she's moved and I really don't care to be in the middle of it.
Do I have a right to be annoyed or am I being ridiculous? I'm worried I'm being a little over the top and it's no big deal, I guess it's just a culmination of past events and now this. Is the right thing to do to just forward her the mail we get? I don't know why I'm making a big deal out of this, but it really bothers me! My husband says we'll just forward it, but I hate to be in the middle of this as I said before.