I always had troubled trusting Christ in my past, because nothing ever really went right in my life:
Now my Boyfriend of five months, we had a fight nearly three weeks ago, I also haven't seen him in three weeks now. Every time I try to do something with him, he says he has a lot of going on. At first I was beginning to get upset, then I learned his Step Dad might have cancer, and my boyfriend might be also loosing his job this Friday, but he won't allow me near him. We still talk on a daily basis, but he says, he just doesn't want to be bothered by anyone, but he does ask me to pray for him.
My friends and family think this is an excuse for him to end things with me, but last week when I spoke to him, I threatened to break it off with him, because I felt like I was getting punished, he told me not to end it and he was not punishing me, because he is going through all these things and he doesn't know what is going to happen, and he just needs to be left alone by everyone.
I love him, but I'm also at the point I don't know what to do, and I am afraid to trust Jesus, because all the disappointment in my past. I keep noticing scripture on trusting Jesus, ect. But I don't even know how!! I also think by dumping him, that would make me look selfish and childish because I want to spend time with him, even though he is going through stuff.
I feel like I want to take this all in my hands, and do it on my own, but it probably won't work if I fail to trust Jesus to take care of it.
Now my Boyfriend of five months, we had a fight nearly three weeks ago, I also haven't seen him in three weeks now. Every time I try to do something with him, he says he has a lot of going on. At first I was beginning to get upset, then I learned his Step Dad might have cancer, and my boyfriend might be also loosing his job this Friday, but he won't allow me near him. We still talk on a daily basis, but he says, he just doesn't want to be bothered by anyone, but he does ask me to pray for him.
My friends and family think this is an excuse for him to end things with me, but last week when I spoke to him, I threatened to break it off with him, because I felt like I was getting punished, he told me not to end it and he was not punishing me, because he is going through all these things and he doesn't know what is going to happen, and he just needs to be left alone by everyone.
I love him, but I'm also at the point I don't know what to do, and I am afraid to trust Jesus, because all the disappointment in my past. I keep noticing scripture on trusting Jesus, ect. But I don't even know how!! I also think by dumping him, that would make me look selfish and childish because I want to spend time with him, even though he is going through stuff.
I feel like I want to take this all in my hands, and do it on my own, but it probably won't work if I fail to trust Jesus to take care of it.