If anyone has any nutrition advice on what types of things are good to eat or any recipe ideas, I'd love to hear them.
First, glad you got things straightened out with your spouse..
Ok.. here goes:
1) Eat all the fruits and veggies you want.. But keep sweet corn and things with high starches (like potatoes) to a minimum. Going to a BBQ? Go ahead and have some corn, its fine.. just don't eat the stuff every day.
2) Only one or two servings of grains per week.. this includes breads, cereals, oatmeal, etc. While things like oatmeal are good for your cholesterol (which I doubt you need to worry about), you need to watch out for the sugars and carbs. Most grains are ground up and are basically carbohydrate bombs.
3) Don't shy away from FAT ! Believe it or not, fatty foods are NOT what makes us fat.. Yes, its the sugar (again!) LOL.
While I don't tend to advocate for deep frying foods, don't bother to cut the fat off your t-bone steak.. its good for you and will make you feel full for a longer period of time.
4) FIBER! The average American only gets about 1/5 of the amount of fiber they should.. Fiber is unbelievably good for you as it pushes food through your system, locks up sugars so your body can't get to them, and helps keep your system nice and clean. It is important to note that you must combine soluble fiber with insoluble fiber as either is useless without the other. Want to hear something funny? Fiber supplements most people buy at the store are loaded with sugar! How stupid is that?
5) Meat... You're a woman right? Women tend to habitually fall short on two important items.. Iron, and calcium. Red meat will give you all the iron you need. (vegetarians just close your eyes and pretend I didn't say that!)
6) Milk and Cheese.. Good proteins, good fats, lots of calcium.
7) Pastas.. Good for you if you're going to be involved in hard physical activity all day.. pretty much really bad at all other times.
8) Peanuts.. Probably one of the best foods you can eat.. In fact, any nuts.. Eat as much as you want as often as you want. Be Warned! You must read the labels if buying peanut butter these days because they load that junk up with all kinds of sugars.. You have to buy natural peanut butter.. Peanuts are loaded with fats, proteins and packed to the brim with fiber. In case anyone didn't notice.. Jimmy Carter is still alive at around 90+ years old he's still going strong even after beating brain cancer.
9) Sodium.. You need to maintain a balance between sodium and potassium.. I forget the actual ratio (15 parts potassium to 1 part sodium?), but suffice it to say you need lots of green veggies to load up on the potassium.
10) Make sure you get enough magnesium.. With all the processed garbage foods available today, its estimated that something like 70% of all Americans are short on Magnesium.. Look it up and get supplements if you need.. You'll be astounded at how important this one is and how many people are short on daily intake.
11) Stay way from "cured" meats.. I love bacon, but its horribly bad for you because of the nitrates used to cure the meat. BBC Horizons Science did a study on this stuff and found that the life shortening effects of eating cured meats with nitrates is on par with smoking.. HUH? I couldn't believe it myself but their science was sound.
12) Stay away from Hydrogenated oils.. Doesn't matter if they're Fully or partially hydrogenated or if they're interesterified, its POISON and is even being outlawed in various states.
Good luck, hope that helps,