My question is simple: why disagree with that statement?
Because I don't believe church helps
everyone. I don't even think
religion helps everyone! It depends on the individual. Blanket-stereotyping people isn't cool with me.
And, because just showing up in a building doesn't "help" anyone. My husband is an agnostic, for instance, and he is
more than willing to sit in a church with me if that's what I wanna do. But he gets nothing out of it for himself, and he's just not interested in religion. That's cool with me.
My point is, if you aren't invested in the trip to Church, it's going to do very little for you. You can argue with that all you like, but I'm an Agnostic-turned-Christian and my husband is a Christian-turned-Agnostic and we
both know that if you aren't invested, it does nothing for you
My husband spent his entire life being dragged through the church and the faith by his mother, and in the end? Came out Agnostic. On the flip side, every church I went to as an Agnostic kid with relatives and friends, did zero to show me anything about God because I just wasn't interested. Years later, I found that interest for myself, and even then felt zero call to go to church (and still, I go through cycles where
sometimes church helps me, and
sometimes church doesn't -- so I might spend 6 months in a church, and 6 months not bothering).
It just doesn't do the same thing for everyone. People need to
understand that. Everyone's
different.
Being able to see things from both sides of the belief fence is really an eye-opening experience. It's kinda like how Christians think they are
helping by proselytizing when people like me know that it does nothing but spread negativity around. Many Christians don't see it because they can't get on the non-belief side of the fence.. but I can see things
quite clearly from the perspective of non-believers and it ain't pretty.
Just because
you think it "should" do good for everyone?
Doesn't mean it
does.
My opinion stands. I disagree with the statement
bordering on Agreement if both parties are invested and the process is important to them
... But that's not my husband and I