- Jun 18, 2014
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- Traditional. Cath.
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I can imagine that those who make the effort to come to places such as these web sites, come to them not out of not having nothing else better to do? I think there is a thirst for something that they are lacking in the world they had known and we aught to find out what that thirst is before we punch them in the mouth for what we assume they are here after.
I was a JW and was brought into that by my mother before I knew anything else. She was that before I and my brother were even thought of. Both he and I were baptized into it, because we were too young to understand anything other than we wanted to please the adults around us and they wanted us baptizes, so we had our heads dipped below a pool of water and that was all the significance I put into it, because I was 7 - 8. I recognized no spiritual purpose in this activity, what so ever.
Upon reaching a level of maturity that allowed me to see the unworkable of their faith, my brother and I removed ourselves from it and from our mother as well. We can neither eat in the same house at the same time with her or sleep under the same roof as we have been disfellowshipped for the last 40 some odd years.
I don't think just because a person is apart of something that they activly choose to be there instead of being born, raised in there and have no understanding of anything beyond that. I only know that the only reason I can think of that someone would go beyond the comforts they have known is because they thirst for something different.
I, myself lost faith in God for nearly 15 years, but found the secular world just as inadequate as I did the JW. I began with reading the Bible personally, as I was not willing to have it read and deciphered for my, because of the experiences I had with the JW. I learned more in the year I read then I ever learned in the years I spent indoctrinated in the JW.
I now have been apart from the JW for 4+ decades an haven't a clue what they believe in and have no desire to do so. I lost my mom to them and have a special erge to bring as many out of there as posible.
When I see people such as they reach out beyond their curtain of ideology I think of the Parable of the Prodigal son on his partand remember the words of Christ when asked why he eat with the Sinners and Publicans.
Matthew 9:12 But when Jesus heard that, he said unto them, They that be whole need not a physician, but they that are sick, on ours
In my view there was an opportunity here that is now lost and it aches my soul to the very core that it is so.
I too am sorry for your losses.
I didn't know that you where born and raised a JW yourself.
Btw your nonexistent relationship with your mother is on her hands not yours, but I'm sure you're aware of that and don't blame yourself.
Your desire to help people out of the JW is admirable.
God bless
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