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I have a HUGE moral problem......when God says to obey your parents, well....my mum is a born again believer however she isnt that close to God as she hasnt read her bible or prayed in quite some time. She's still a very caring and considerate mother though and we go to church pretty much every sunday unless somethings on.
Well...theres a guy that I like, that my mum doesnt approve of (for shallow reasons....she doesnt like his nashionality (european), or the way he looks). So after we had been talking for a longg time (emailing and phone), he asked if he could speak to her and introduce himself but I said 'no, give it some time'. We started a relationship (meeting up lots and stuff) and my mum found out about him and banned me from talking to him. (hes 19 like me by the way). I dont know what to do...I love talking to him, hes a strong baptist christian, and we get on great. So even though it was hard for us, we kept talking in secret without telling my mum. She found out, and started hating him for being disrespectful to her by talking to me despite her telling him (directly by phone) never to speak to me again. She even called him a 'stupid aussie boy' on the phone and started yelling at and insulting him!! But he loves me, so of course he cant just stop talking to me altogether, and same for me!
Heres the question....is it a sin to contine disobeying (and i even have to lie sometimes) in order to keep talking and being in a relationship and meeting with him > I mean, i can really see this going somewhere (us getting married someday)...but this family opposition is frustrating?! Does this mean its not in Gods will for us to be together....?
Help!! Im reallyy lost and hurt and confused so I'd greatly appreciate the perspectives of other brothers and sisters in christ here) Thankyou in advance!!
Well...theres a guy that I like, that my mum doesnt approve of (for shallow reasons....she doesnt like his nashionality (european), or the way he looks). So after we had been talking for a longg time (emailing and phone), he asked if he could speak to her and introduce himself but I said 'no, give it some time'. We started a relationship (meeting up lots and stuff) and my mum found out about him and banned me from talking to him. (hes 19 like me by the way). I dont know what to do...I love talking to him, hes a strong baptist christian, and we get on great. So even though it was hard for us, we kept talking in secret without telling my mum. She found out, and started hating him for being disrespectful to her by talking to me despite her telling him (directly by phone) never to speak to me again. She even called him a 'stupid aussie boy' on the phone and started yelling at and insulting him!! But he loves me, so of course he cant just stop talking to me altogether, and same for me!
Heres the question....is it a sin to contine disobeying (and i even have to lie sometimes) in order to keep talking and being in a relationship and meeting with him > I mean, i can really see this going somewhere (us getting married someday)...but this family opposition is frustrating?! Does this mean its not in Gods will for us to be together....?
Help!! Im reallyy lost and hurt and confused so I'd greatly appreciate the perspectives of other brothers and sisters in christ here) Thankyou in advance!!
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