Friends are just bad news

[Sonfest Rocker]

I have had it with my friends...

 

[Revived]

Why?

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

I seem to spend more time trying to talk to them than actualy talking to them... They just seem to walk all over me.

 

[Sapphyre]

Sorry People can be pretty awful sometimes. :\

 

[Gabe7]

I seem to spend more time trying to talk to them than actualy talking to them... They just seem to walk all over me.

That sounds painful unless they are small asians.

 

[Revived]

Sorry as well :/ Hopefully you'll soon be blessed with some new friends.

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

I'm always alone I don't make friends easy... I finally find a few people that I get along with well and then its like I dont exist.

 

[Revived]

We'll be your friends.

 

[Gabe7]

I'm always alone I don't make friends easy... I finally find a few people that I get along with well and then its like I dont exist.

What do you like to do with friends?

 

[Sapphyre]

We'll be your friends.

There are some pretty awesome people here, I must say.

 

[KingCrimson250]

That sounds painful unless they are small asians.

Time and a place, my man, time and a place.


Sorry to hear about your difficult times, Sonfest. We're glad to be here as a community to help however we can! Whether you someone to laugh with you or to listen to you, we're here.

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

I have spent the last few days trying to decide if I want to tell them how they are making me feel.

 

[KingCrimson250]

I'd encourage it. I hate to sound like a walking cliche but open lines of communication make any relationship stronger. If they are truly your friends, they'll listen. And if they aren't really your friends, it's better to end this painful process now rather than later. I would, however, recommend doing it a few "practice" times first, to get all your anger and pain out before you actually talk to them, so that you can be clear and level-headed when you do

 

[Revived]

I'd encourage it. I hate to sound like a walking cliche but open lines of communication make any relationship stronger. If they are truly your friends, they'll listen. And if they aren't really your friends, it's better to end this painful process now rather than later. I would, however, recommend doing it a few "practice" times first, to get all your anger and pain out before you actually talk to them, so that you can be clear and level-headed when you do

^This.

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

Last time I told them they said they would change but a month on were back to where we began.

 

[Tink]

I'm sorry you're going through this, Sonfest.

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

It hurts the most because about 5 years ago i had promised my self I wouldn't make friends.. but I let my guard down and for a few years we were close as close could be.. now I'm back to being a no one

 

[Revived]

You're not a "no one". You seem like an awesome and sincere person and most importantly, you're loved by God. Stay strong!!

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

I feel like a No one..

 

[MehGuy]

I have spent the last few days trying to decide if I want to tell them how they are making me feel.

Well that's what I was trying to get you to do in the other thread, and I think that is a good idea.. don't be a pushover... you may lose friends but maybe actually find new ones with your new self respect attitude, because I think part of your problem with making friends is you are too easy to walk over.